Green’s Dictionary of Slang

lilac adj.

[SE lilac, a colour seen as stereotypically homosexual]

effeminately homosexual.

[US]Ade People You Know 41: Nearly every high-speed Bachelor in Town had been forbidden [...] The kind that Mother approved were of the Lilac Division with White Puff Ties.
[UK]K. Amis letter 14 Dec. in Leader (2000) 611: He can be detected by his sneers at the ‘lilac establishment’.