Green’s Dictionary of Slang

to have an orgasm, to ejaculate; thus spending n. and adj., ejaculating; spent adj., ejaculated.

1546		J. Heywood Proverbs II Ch. x: He brought the bottom of the bag cleane out. / His gadyng thus agayne made hir ill content, / But she not so muche as dreamd that all was spent.
1594		Gesta Grayorum in J. Nichols Progresses and Processions of Queen Elizabeth (1823) III 334: Is any so spente, that his wife keeps Lent? / Does any waste in his marrow? Is any lugge? let him taste of my drugg, / ’Twill make him as quicke as a sparrow.
1609		Dekker Gul’s Horne-Booke 15: Play neither the scurvy part of the Frenchman, that pluckes up all by ye rootes, nor that of the spending Englishman.
c.1642		T. Killigrew Parson’s Wedding (1664) II vii: If she hears thou keep’st a Wench, thou hadst better be a Beggar in her opinion [...] for a Wencher, no Argument prevails with your Widow; for she believes that they have spent too much that way to be able to pay her due benevolence.
c.1660		‘A Creature ffor ffeature’ in Furnivall & Hales Bishop Percy’s Folio Manuscript of Loose and Humorous Songs (1868) 53: He kist me, & wisht me to beare with his behauior; / but hie tro lolly lolly, le silly willy cold not doe. / all content with him was spent.
c.1661		ballad in Wardroper (1969) 180: Then stiffly thrust and hit me just. / Fear not, but freely spend it / And play about at in and out / Once more, and none can mend it.
1672		‘Song’ Covent Garden Drollery 39: Agreed we lay’d down and tumbled Till both were weary of play, Though I spent a full share, Yet by Cupid I swear, I came off with a ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
1680		Rochester ‘On Mrs Willis’ in Works (1999) 37: She rails and scolds when she lyes down / And Curses when she spends.
1709		N. Chorier (trans.) of Meursius ‘The Delights of Venus’ in Cabinet of Love (1739) 189: All Night she thinks on Man, both toils and sweats, / And dreaming frigs, and spends upon the Sheets.
1740		Dialogue Between a Married Lady and a Maid III: He began to thrust again, and after about Half a Score, he cry’d, he was going to sp--d.
1772		Bridges Burlesque Homer (3rd edn) 196: She [...] There held it fast, and made it stand, / And spend its venom in her hand.
1786		Nunnery Amusements 14: Speechless she lies – as spending females use, / And the warm tide her juicy chink bedews.
1787		Harris’s List of Covent-Garden Ladies 70: Feast on her charms, and spend in bliss the night.
1794		‘The Summer Morn’ in Farmer Merry Songs and Ballads (1897) IV 267: Till Damon, fierce, mistim’d his arse / An’ spent quite out o’ tune, Sir.
1836		‘The Bower That Stands In Thigh Lane’ Frisky Vocalist 44: But though at the entrance the men their time spent, / Alas! oh, she never could guess what they meant.
1842		‘In the Days When We Went Rogering’ Nancy Dawson’s Cabinet of Songs 31: And curse the cur, whoever he be, / That vouldn’t spend his vhack.
1843		N.Y. Sporting Whip 4 Mar. n.p.: We advise a certain boss cigar maker [...] not to neglect his business for the purpose of spend-ing an evening with a pretty virgin.
1863		T.P. Lowry ‘Jeff Davis Dream’ Stories the Soldiers Wouldn’t Tell (1994) 50: His arse it went to bobbing— / He let a fart, and then he spent— / Says Jeffrey’s wife, ‘I’m co- co- coming’.
1870		Cythera’s Hymnal 80: At last she got rotten, / And didn’t she stink when she spent.
1879		in G. Legman Limerick (1953) 16: There was a young man of Ostend / Whose wife caught him fucking her friend. / ‘It’s no use, my duck, / Interrupting our fuck, / For I’m damned if I draw till I spend.’.
1888–94		‘Walter’ My Secret Life (1966) I 67: In another minute nature urged a crisis, and I spent in a virgin cunt.
1889		C. Deveureux Venus in India I 39: She seemed to do nothing but ‘come’ or ‘spend!’ I had heard of a woman ‘coming’ thirteen or fourteen times during one fuck, but this woman seemed to do nothing else from beginning to end.
1893		‘Bob Sterling’ Town-Bull 15: ‘The very sight of your big prick makes me ready to spend’.
1898		Forbidden Fruit n.p.: Oh, I must come now [...] I’m spending — oh, Heavens —How delicious!
1902		D. St John Memoirs of Madge Buford 16: ‘I’m spending, give it to me!‘ and [...] the panting girl threw her legs around his waist.
1904		Lustful Memoirs of a Young and Passionated Girl 26: He then explained that some men drew out their rod just before spending, others used a syringe, others a rubber bag over their long tom, etc.
c.1930		(ref. to 1868) N. Kimball Amer. Madam (1981) 88: They wanted to hold a young girl in their arms, go through the motions, and having spent their load, would politely thank you.
1941		in G. Legman Limerick (1953) 58: A talented Fuckstress, Miss Chisholm, / Was renowned for her fine paroxysm / While the man detumesced / She still spent on with zest.
1951		in G. Legman Limerick (1953) 339: All the way through a fuck / He would quack like a duck, / And he crowed like a cock when he spent.
1955		in Randolph & Legman Ozark Folksongs and Folklore (1992) II 658: You can’t tell the difference [i.e. between a penis and a candle] when you come to spend.
1986		S. King It (1987) 868: I only realized after I spent m’spunk in her.
1992		A. Duff One Night Out Stealing 42: It may as well be a sheep from a paddock, a piece of meat that ya hump in and out till you’re spent.