Green’s Dictionary of Slang

icing expert n.

also icing queen
[resemblance of semen to SE icing]

(gay) a fellator.

[US]G. Legman ‘Lang. of Homosexuality’ Appendix VII in Henry Sex Variants.
[US]Guild Dict. Homosexual Terms 24: icing expert (n., obs.): A fellator; termed so by the relation of cake icing to semen. (Having its origin in the CCC camps of the 1930’s.).
[US]B. Rodgers Queens’ Vernacular.