Green’s Dictionary of Slang

flap v.4

[SE flap, to fuss, to panic]

1. to chatter.

[UK]Kipling ‘As Easy as A.B.C.’ in Diversity of Creatures (1917) 33: ‘We’re a nice lot to flap about governing the Planet,’ De Forest laughed .
[US]W. Brown Teen-Age Mafia 167: She’d really flapped, trying to keep her own skirts clean.
[UK]A. Burgess Enderby Outside in Complete Enderby (2002) 302: I won’t blart it. Never know who’s flapping.
[US]H. Selby Jr Requiem for a Dream (1987) 83: You stand there with your big ugly face flappin in the breeze.
[SA]K. Cage Gayle 70/1: flap v. to babble away aimlessly.

2. (US gay) to act in an exaggeratedly effeminate manner.

[US]B. Rodgers Queens’ Vernacular 82: To overemphasize, often deliberately, all girlish traits attributed to the effeminate [...] flap.

SE in slang uses

In compounds

flap-noodle (n.)

(Aus.) a foolish (young) person.

[Aus]L. Lower Here’s Luck 34: Not that I lack either strength or agility; young flap-noodles can show me no points when it comes to strength and vigour.

In phrases

flap at the jibs (v.)

see under jib n.1

flap like a dunny door in a high wind (v.)

see under dunny n.2

flap one’s ears (v.)

(US) to listen (hard).

Motion Picture 9 85/1: I was nosing around the Essanay Company's [...] studio, with my pencil pointed like a setter dog and my ears flapping in their thirst to take in some ‘copy’ .
[UK]Wodehouse Carry on, Jeeves 18: To dive into a bush that stood near the library window, and stand there with my ears flapping.
P. Cheyney Your Deal, My Lovely n.p.: Go right ahead, baby, my ears are flapping.
[US]‘Iceberg Slim’ Pimp 47: I flapped my ears when I heard one of the white repeaters running down the joint [...] to a fish.
[UK]S. May No Exceptions in Best Radio Plays (1984) 118: Roger Burge stop flapping your ears and do some work.
flap one’s horns (v.)

(US black) to listen.

[US]‘Iceberg Slim’ Pimp 189: You flap your horns and remember what I’m gonna spiel to you.
flap one’s jaw (v.)

see under jaw n.

flap one’s mouth (v.) (also flap one’s lips, ...tongue) [now mainly W.I. use]

to chatter, to say more than is sensible or proper.

[UK]H.G. Wells Hist. of Mr Polly (1946) 142: You go flapping your silly mouth about me, and I’ll give you a poke in the eye.
[US]R. Chandler ‘I’ll Be Waiting’ in Red Wind (1946) 132: This Rall’s flapped his mouth in stir about how the girl would be waiting for him.
[US]C. Willingham End as a Man (1952) 141: Your tongue seems to be flapping.
[Aus]K. Tennant Joyful Condemned 165: Think I’m going round flapping my mouth to every silly triss that gets shoved in with me?
[US]D. Wakefield Going All the Way 280: They just talked about this and that [...] just flapping their lips in the breeze.
[UK]A. Payne ‘Get Daley!’ Minder [TV script] 12: You start flapping your mouth and I’ll land you right in it.
[US]W.D. Myers Motown and Didi 136: Even with the gun he was weak, flapping his lips to get his courage up.
[UK]W. Chen King of the Carnival 59: Keep your flapping mouth shut.
[US](con. 1985–90) P. Bourjois In Search of Respect 47: Oprah Winfrey or the Donahue Show — which doesn’t mean shit. [...] It’s not going to change the world in an eensy-weensy bit at at all. It’s just talk. Flap the lip.
[US]F.X. Toole Rope Burns 229: You know what I do a you funky old ass you start flappin you lips.
M. McKinney Still of the Night 61: Like I said, you flap your mouth too much.