Green’s Dictionary of Slang

jolling n.

[jol v. + sfx -ing]
(S.Afr.)

1. flirting.

[Scot]Post letter 5 Oct. 5: Is love and ‘jolling’ the same thing? The answer is no ... Loving is permanent and ‘jolling’ temporary.
Adams & Suttner William Str. 17: The other sister started jolling with the manager of the bioscope and they ran away together [DSAE].
‘Jimbo’ [programme insert] Napac Jolling. Having an affair [DSAE].

2. merry-making, ‘partying’; also as adj.

R. Govender Lahnees Pleasure 7: Saturday night! Jolling night! [DSAE].
P. Gaines in Cosmopolitan May 177: The girls ... had lots to talk about. Parents, boyfriends, fashion, jolling — they all spoke the same language [DSAE].
[US]G. Evans Dancing Shoes is Dead 59: I loved [...] jolling at jazz events in the older African townships.