Green’s Dictionary of Slang

elderberry n.

[pun on SE elder and fruit n. (2)]

(gay) an ageing or old homosexual.

[US]Maledicta III:2 222: Even the British [despise] everyone (as Auntie Mame put it) ‘somewhere between 40 and death’ as overripe fruit, elderberries, geriatricks (a UK term punning on US trick = short-time sex partner).