Green’s Dictionary of Slang

on bad terms with, quarrelling, disenchanted with, opposed to.

1660		J. Tatham Rump II i: And though he was out with my Lord many times, he would be in with you, as the saying is, and please your Highness.
1845		D. Corcoran Pickings from N.O. Picayune (1847) 181: His hat, which also bore evident marks of having been ‘out’ with him in some recent hard skrimmage.
1885		Daily News 6 Mar. in Ware (1909) 190/1: Nor is Russian statesmanship our only trouble at the present moment. Prince Bismarck is or has been ‘out with us’, as the children say.
1909		J. Ware Passing Eng. of the Victorian Era 190/1: Out (Soc. and Peoples’, 19 cent.). Quarrelled.
1910		P.W. Joyce Eng. As We Speak It In Ireland (1979) 299: ‘I am out with him’ means I am not on terms with him.
1932		P.G. Cressey Taxi-Dance Hall 103: I’m ‘out’ with him now, because of the way he treated me.
1963		Kerouac letter 29 June in Charters II (1999) 367: Like, now I’m outs with Gregory almost.
1983		S. King Christine 2: Arnie was a natural out. He was out with the jocks because he was scrawny [...] He was out with the druggies because he didn’t do dope.