Green’s Dictionary of Slang

1. to stare pointedly and lustfully at a sexually desirable person.

1916		H.N. Cary Sl. of Venery I 79: Eye Fuck – To stare and leer at a woman.
1972		B. Rodgers Queens’ Vernacular 77: eyefuck 1. to undress somebody visually.
1998		(con. 1986) G. Pelecanos Sweet Forever 18: Some cowboy-hat wearing gay boys eye-fucked him on the street near Dupont Circle.
2006		posting at www.tvgasm.com 26 July 🌐 Why does Ryan eye-fuck the camera so much, and how could anyone say his performance was good?
2007		C. Goffard Snitch Jacket 81: It’s no place for ladies. All those creeps eye-fucking you.
2013		NSFWCorp 5 June 🌐 Carmen, on the other hand, is [...] eyefucking the camera. And eyefucking the crew. And eyefucking me.

2. to stare, without sexual overtones.

1995

W.D. Ehrhart Vietnam-Perkasie: A Combat Marine Memoir 12: You will not eye-fuck the area. You will keep your head and eyes front at all times.

3. to stare with deliberate, challenging aggressiveness.

1972		B. Rodgers Queens’ Vernacular 77: eyefuck [...] 2. to stare holes through somebody.
1991		D. Simon Homicide (1993) 260: Any other detective would get eyefucked and maybe cursed.
1997		Simon & Burns Corner (1998) 16: A fourth [plainclothesman] stands in the street, eyefucking the crews on the Mount Street corners.
2006		G. Pelecanos Night Gardener 40: Conrad [...] eye-fucked the residents who were watching the scene from across the street.
2017		T. Pluck Bad Boy Boogie [ebook] ‘You keep eye-fucking me rich boy [...] and we’ll see if your rentboys can drop me before I bite your throat out’.
2020		D. Winslow ‘Broken’ in Broken 25: The owner behind the bar gives Wilmer an ugly look. Wilmer sees it. “Are you eye-fucking me, cabrón?