Green’s Dictionary of Slang

necking n.

[neck v.]

1. (US) an act of scrutiny or staring.

[US]Jackson & Hellyer Vocab. Criminal Sl. 61: necking [...] A scrutiny: an impertinent staring [...] Example: ‘The guinea on the end is giving you a necking through the glass.’.

2. kissing and cuddling.

[UK]P. Marks Plastic Age 28: The hero was given careful instructions. ‘Some neckin’, Harold!’.
[US](con. 1920s) J.T. Farrell Young Manhood in Studs Lonigan (1936) 421: You don’t want to be riding around in automobiles with fast young fellows, petting and necking.
[US]P. Wylie Generation of Vipers 64: The automobile is, for them, a detached, portable bedroom. In it they consummate their sex necessities by what they call ‘petting’ – still naively assumed, by older folk, to be synonymous with ‘necking’.
[US]Lait & Mortimer USA Confidential 162: [We] saw B-girls in each of these places—necking or worse in corners with servicemen.
[UK]E. Bond Saved Scene x: Why did the policewoman marry the ’angman? [...] They both liked necking.
[UK](con. 1950s) Nicholson & Smith Spend, Spend, Spend (1978) 46: I knew something might come of it like a good necking session.
[US]‘Bill E. Goodhead’ Nubile Treat 🌐 I thought Cecilia was ready ... for some heavy necking. We were in the car, parked up by the cliff, and I ... I guess I got a little out of line.

3. (US Und.) hanging.

[US]Monteleone Criminal Sl. (rev. edn).

4. (Aus.) a means of pickpocketing whereby the thief puts one arm around his victim’s neck and the other into his pocket.

[Aus]J. Alard He who Shoots Last 173: All his boob dreams of performing future neckings (his favourite method of earning a living) were fading.

In compounds

necking party (n.)

a session of embraces short of intercourse between a single couple.

Judge 82 21/1: [pic. caption] The Original Necking Party.
[US]H.C. Witwer Roughly Speaking 14: I don’t think Big Bertha had ever had a good time in her life, and she must have thought necking parties were hangings.
[US](con. 1920s) J.T. Farrell Judgement Day in Studs Lonigan (1936) 541: There’s plenty of dames [...] a fellow looks at them, takes them out and throws a little necking party.
[US]R.L. Bellem ‘Shakedown Sham’ Dan Turner – Hollywood Detective May 🌐 You’ve got me all wrong if you think this is about to become a necking party.
[UK]K. Amis letter 25 Nov. in Leader (2000) 14: The suppers and the necking parties and the Labour Club.
[UK]K. Howard Small Time Crooks 50: His arm was round her shoulders in a flash and he was holding her like it was a necking party.