Green’s Dictionary of Slang

bother v.

1. a euph. synon. for damn v. (1)

[UK]C. Dibdin Yngr Larks of Logic, Tom and Jerry III i: Bother the ‘charleys’.
[UK]Dickens Martin Chuzzlewit (1995) 709: Oh bother the old wictim, Mr. Chuzzlewit [...] I ain’t no patience with him.
[UK]F.E. Smedley Frank Fairlegh (1878) 196: Oh! bother mathematics.
[UK]Cheshire Obs. 18 Aug. 8/1: Bother that romance and stuff! / She who likes it is a muff; / We are better up to snuff / / Fast young ladies.
Inquirer (Perth, WA) 28 Nov. 3/6: Bother that romance and stuff! / She who likes it is a muff.
[US]H.L. Williams Ticket-of-Leave Man 17: ‘Bother the girls, now I’m a mar’d man,’ hiccupped Green.
[UK]Five Years’ Penal Servitude 303: Oh, bother the fellows!
[Ind]H. Hartigan Stray Leaves (1st ser.) 215: ‘Bother the sergeant-major’.
[US]J.F. Macardle Moko Marionettes 10: Bother grammar!
[UK]J.K. Jerome Three Men in a Boat 297: Oh, bother the silly old thing!
[Aus]Truth (Sydney) 3 Feb. 4/7: ‘Bother the Chinese question,’ I said, ‘how did you get on last Saturday?’.
[UK]G.M. Fenn Sappers and Miners 120: Bother the dog, what a row he’s making!
[UK]K. Grahame Wind in the Willows (1995) 53: ‘O, bother Toad,’ said the Rat savagely.
[UK]Derby Dly Teleg. 15 July 4/5: Bother it, old chap; I cawn’t go to the party. I have no collah-buttons.
[US]E.B. Morris Sophomore 35: Miss Dwiggins. (stamping her foot) Bother Mr Cunningham!
[UK]Boy’s Own Paper XL:3 116: Oh, bother Pepper!
[UK]Marvel 24 July 16: Bother the idiot!
[UK]Whizzbang Comics 88: ‘Bother him,’ muttered Tommy.
[UK]‘Henry Green’ Loving (1978) 36: Anyway bother nanny.
[UK]‘Frank Richards’ Billy Bunter at Butlins 32: Oh, bother Quelch!

2. a euph. for damn v. (2); usu. as (I’m) bothered (if)...

M.H. Barker Jem Bunt 201: If you arn’t the agent, you're his ghost; and I’m bothered if I cares which on you it is, so as you do but come down handsomely.
J.A. Carnes Voyage from Boston to the West Coast of Africa 307: Well, Jack, I thought I ’d seen ‘niggers’ afore, but I ’m bothered if any such fellows as them are, ever came athwart my hawse. If them are darkies ain’t the raal, ginuwine, ‘Guinea Niggers,’ then my name ain’t ‘Dick Nelson’.
C.H. Bennett London People 106: And I’m bothered if I didn’t take a wife as well: never mind about her, though, she is gone now, and a better woman never broke bread.
[Aus]Aus. Jrnl July 610/2: Oh, hang it, Parkes, I’m bothered if I’ll do any detective business [...] for you or anybody.
R.D. Blackmore Clara Vaughan [ebook] I’m bothered if it’s all lies, after all. Never dreamed the old gal could tell a word of truth.
L.E. Tiddeman In the Leafy Month of June 49: If I were a pretty girl like you, I’m bothered if I would not have found a better joke.
T.B. Reid Cock House at Fellsgarth [ebook] I’m bothered if I can make it out [...] Everybody’s marked down as paid.
[US]Vanguard Library 31 Mar. 3: Bothered if you fellows are not more than human.
[UK]Marvel 10 July 4: Bothered if I don’t have a try to pump the silly ass.
[UK]D.L. Sayers Busman’s Honeymoon (1974) 315: ‘Well, I’m bothered!’ exclaimed Mr. Kirk, laughing heartily.