Green’s Dictionary of Slang

1. (also reach-round) during inter-male anal intercourse, the reaching round by the active partner to masturbate the passive partner’s penis; in fig. use, a bonus (see cite 2016).

1987		Hasford & Kurbrick Full Metal Jacket [film script] I’ll bet you’re the kind of guy that would fuck a person in the ass and not even have the goddam common courtesy to give him a reach-around! I’ll be watching you!
1994		T. Willocks Green River Rising 169: This time, he resolved, he’d even try to remember to give her [i.e. a gay man] a reach around.
1997		Roger’s Profanisaurus in Viz 87 Dec. n.p.: reach around n. In botting, pouring your partner a hand shandy (qv) whilst ram shackled.
2001		D. Looser Boobslang [U. Canterbury D.Phil. thesis] 151/2: reach around n. a sexual act between two males. One man anally penetrates his partner, while at the same time reaching around in front to manually stimulate his partner's genitals.
2007		C. Goffard Snitch Jacket 255: You and Finkel. Who wore the choke-collar, and who gave the reach-arounds?
2011		J.J. DeCeglie Drawing Dead [ebook] Who’d you let fuck you in the ass to get it, Chenko [...] I hope he gave you a reach round.
2015		S. King Finders Keepers (2016) 78: Step out boys [...] Arm’s length fom the upstanding American in front of you. No wedgies and no reach-arounds. Don’t fuck with us, and we will return the favor.
2016		D. Whish-Wilson Old Scores [ebook] ‘That friend of mine. Last seen snatched by bikies. Who pulled the trigger?’ ‘You looking for a reach-around too?’.
2018		Twitter 18 Nov. 🌐 This prick gave a white guy accused of massive electoral fraud a fucking televised reacharound a couple of weeks ago, then he’s *this* aggressive to a woman of colour?

2. similarly of a female sitting on a man’s lap and facing away from his erect penis.

2001		‘Randy Everhard’ Tattoo of a Naked Lady 238: Punky obliged with a little reach-around. She pumped his shaft.
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