Green’s Dictionary of Slang

(US) a party organized for the sale of erotic toys and clothing.

1983		G. Davis Romance 63: The nicest women on the Peninsula get together for what they themselves have labelled Fuckerware parties, where a representative comes equipped with Benoit balls, edible underwear, all manner of lubricious devices for sale [Sheidlower].
2002		G.A. Thomson at ADS-L 31 Oct. 🌐 My wife teaches in the English Dept. of a high school near Coney Island. Last week a young female teacher informed her colleagues, including my wife, that she had attended a ‘Fuckerware’ party over the weekend.