Green’s Dictionary of Slang

(US) one who persists in making unwanted advances to women.

1999		Indep. Rev. 17 Dec. 13: He still looks more like a crushee than a crusher.
2023		(con. 1962) J. Ellroy Enchanters 388: Carole Landis [was] an example of a ‘neophyte crushers’s crush’.