dry fuck n.
1. (also dry rub) a simulated act of sexual intercourse, without penetration and usu. without removing the clothes.
|(ref. to late 19C) Amer. Madam (1981) 231: The johns got a dry rub standing up.|
|‘Betty Co-Ed’ [comic strip] in Tijuana Bibles (1997) 58: Dry fuck ... 50$.|
|Tropic of Capricorn (1964) 104: Maybe you’ll [...] get a dry fuck.|
|DAUL 63/1: Dry rub. (P) Body contact, in wrestling or ‘horseplay,’ patently homosexual.et al.|
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|Underground Dict. (1972).|
2. in fig. use, something tedious or disappointing.
|Letters 177: If only Margo could get something of this quality into ‘The Project’ [...] It is a dry fuck, really [HDAS].|
3. (gay) anal intercourse without any form of lubricant.
|Maledicta III:2 231: He also may or may not know the following words and expressions: [...] eye-doctor (where eye = anus), dry fuck (without penetration, or without KY or other lubricant such as vaseline or Crisco – mostly for fist-fucking).|