Green’s Dictionary of Slang

betty n.

1. (UK Und.) a short iron bar, used to break open doors, force locks etc; the predecessor of the 19C jemmy n.3 (1)

[UK]Dekker Canters Dict. Eng. Villainies (9th edn).
[Ire]Head Eng. Rogue I 47: Betty, an instrument to break a door.
[UK]A Newgate ex-prisoner A Warning for House-Keepers 3: They have an instrument made about half a yard long [...] which they call a Betty, which being chopt under a door, with a little help, it will make it fly off the hinges.
[UK]Proc. Old Bailey 20 Feb. n.p.: There was an Iron Betty found in the Prisoners house, which was lost by a Butcher, which the Thieves call an Embroidering Needle.
[UK]B.E. Dict. Canting Crew n.p.: Betty, c. a small Engin to force open the Doors of Houses.
[UK]N. Ward Hudibras Redivivus II:9 7: So Ruffians, who, with Crows and Betties, / Break Houses, when it dark and late is.
[UK]A. Smith Lives of Most Noted Highway-men, etc. I 242: They have their Tinder-Boxes, Matches, Flints, Steel, Dark-Lanthorns, Bags, Cords, Betties, and Chisels.
[UK]New Canting Dict. n.p.: betty or bess a small Engine to force open the Doors of Houses; Mill the Gig with your Betty; i.e. Break open the Door with your Instrument.
[UK]Bailey Universal Etym. Eng. Dict.
[UK]Scoundrel’s Dict.
[UK](con. 1710–25) Tyburn Chronicle ii in Groom (1999) xxix: A Bess or Betty A small Iron Crow.
[UK]J. Fielding Thieving Detected 27: A Sneak can, with the help of his Betty (an instrument turned up at one end like a hook) open almost any lock in England.
[UK]Grose Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue.
[UK]Lex. Balatronicum.
[UK]Egan Grose’s Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue.
[UK]Flash Dict. in Sinks of London Laid Open.
[Aus]Bell’s Life in Sydney 27 May 3/1: Flinn, who was last week convicted of being found with skeleton keys and a Betty in his possession.
[US]Matsell Vocabulum 11: ‘Long tackling’ means a ‘stick’ and a ‘betty,’ or, in plain words, a small crowbar with a wooden handle.
[UK]E. de la Bédollière Londres et les Anglais 313/1: betty, [...] instrument pour forcer les portes.
[UK]Newcastle Courant 9 Sept. 6/5: The detectives having withdrawn the bolt ‘struck’ the lock with a Betty.
[UK]Belfast News-Letter 11 Apr. 6/5: ‘Betty’ was the old name for that favourite tool of the burglar which in these latter days has changed its name and become a ‘jemmy’.
[US]Monteleone Criminal Sl. (rev. edn).

2. a small flask, used to hold wine.

[UK]B.E. Dict. Canting Crew n.p.: Betty [...] a quarter Flask of Wine.
[UK]T. Brown Amusements Serious and Comical in Works (1744) III 112: My pretty rogue, shan’t we have a betty of wine?
[UK]Grose Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue.
[UK]Lex. Balatronicum.
[UK]Egan Grose’s Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue.
[US]Ladies’ Repository (N.Y.) Oct. VIII:37 316/2: lush betty, Whisky bottle.

3. a skeleton key, a picklock.

[UK]Defoe Street Robberies Considered 30: Betty, a Picklock.
[UK]G. Parker View of Society II 149: A woman [...] dressed like a servant-maid, with a cream-pot in one hand, and Betty in the other; and a number of young Dubs hanging by her side.
[UK]G. Andrewes Dict. Sl. and Cant.
[Aus]Vaux Vocab. of the Flash Lang. in McLachlan (1964) 227: betty: picklock; to unbetty, or betty a lock, to open or relock it, by means of the betty, so as to avoid subsequent detection.
[UK]‘Jon Bee’ Dict. of the Turf, the Ring, the Chase, etc. 10: Betty, or Bess — a crooked nail to open locks. Several sizes are carried by cracksmen: they are bent first and hardened afterwards.
[UK]G. Kent Modern Flash Dict.
[UK]Flash Dict. in Sinks of London Laid Open.
[UK]Duncombe New and Improved Flash Dict. n.p.: Betty a little tools [sic] for opening locks.
[UK](con. 1840s–50s) H. Mayhew London Labour and London Poor (1968) IV 339: Expert burglars [...] have a jemmy, a cutter, a dozen of betties, better known as picklocks.
[UK]Leaves from Diary of Celebrated Burglar 93/1: There were ‘neddies,’ ‘jemmies,’ ‘glims,’ ‘centre bits,’ ‘betties,’ ‘screws,’ cutlers and tapers in large numbers.
[Aus]Australiasian (Melbourne) 17 July 8/5: A skeleton key is a betty .
[UK]Hotten Sl. Dict.
[Aus]Sydney Sl. Dict. (2 edn) 1: Betty - Skeleton key, or picklock.
[Aus]Crowe Aus. Sl. Dict. 8: Betty, a skeleton key [...] Betty, Betsy, pick-locks.
[UK]J. Ware Passing Eng. of the Victorian Era 31/2: Bitties [sic] (Thieves’) Evasive term for skeleton-keys.

4. implying effeminacy [note Scot./US dial. jenny(-woman) a man who meddles in or assists in a woman’s housework; and 17C Bettyland, esp. in pamphlet Erotopolis, The Present State of Betty-Land, in which the term stands for i) the female body, ii) the lowlife areas of London and iii) human sexuality; in it one finds ‘Rutland’ and the great city of ‘Pego’, the ‘centre of the whole (i.e. hole n.1 (1b) = vagina) Empire’].

(a) a homosexual man.

[UK] ‘Jenny Cromwells Complaint against Sodomy’ Harleian Mss. 7315.226: Scarsdale [...] skulks about the Alleys And is content with Bettys, Nans and Mollys.
[UK]Ipswich Jrnl 29 July 4/2: Those Abominable Wretches publickly call one another by the Name of Dolly, Molly, Betty [...] &c. and perform such beastly Actions in that Lude House, as is not fit to mention.
[UK]Hell upon Earth 43: It would be a pretty Scene to behold them in their Clubs and Cabals, how they assume the Air and affect the Name of Madam or Miss, Betty or Molly, with a chuck under the Chin, and O you bold Pullet I’ll break your Eggs, and then frisk and walk away.
[US]B. Rodgers Queens’ Vernacular.

(b) a man who takes on a woman’s household duties.

[UK]Partridge DSUE (1984) 73/1: C.19-20.

(c) (S.Afr. gay) the buttocks; thus Betty called, to have had anal intercourse; Betty’s house, the anus.

[SA]K. Cage Gayle 57/2: Betty [...] the buttocks [...] Betty’s house anus.

5. (US, Southern) a cowhide whip.

E.A. Pollard Black Diamonds 24: Now, Caesar one day had caught it, not from Brutus, but from Betty — an allegorical coquette in the shape of a red cowhide.

6. a chamberpot.

[US] in DARE.

7. (Irish) a fireguard.

[Ire]M. O’Beirne Mister, A Dublin Childhood n.p.: We had a high-barred fire with a betty round it [BS].

8. a schoolteacher.

[US] in DARE.

9. (US campus) a pretty young woman [underpinned by character ‘Betty’ in TV cartoon The Flintstones].

[US]Current Sl. VI 1: Betty A, n. A girl with large breasts.
[US]Eble Campus Sl. Sept. 3: fly betty – a girl who dresses fashionably.
[US]P. Munro Sl. U. 35: The girl in Abnormal Psychology is a definite betty.
[US]A. Heckerling Clueless [film script] Wasn’t my mom a betty? She died when I was just a baby. A fluke accident during a routine liposuction.
[US]Teen Lingo: The Source for Youth Ministry 🌐 betty n. an old school term for a girl/lady ‘Man, look at that fine looking Betty’.
Thankyou Mag. May. [online] Not only is she one of pop culture’s most accomplished ‘voices’, she’s a total Betty to boot.

In exclamations

betty rub!

(US campus) an excl. used by one male to another, meaning ‘you’re going to get lucky with her!’.

[US]P. Munro Sl. U.