Green’s Dictionary of Slang

kiki adj.

also kai-kai
[kiki n.1 ]

(US gay) describing one who enjoys anal sex; thus effeminate.

[US]‘Swasarnt Nerf’ et al. Gay Girl’s Guide 11: kai-kai: NYC MBS [Male Bobby-Soxer] term. As an adjective, anally inclined.
[US](con. 1940s) C. Bram Hold Tight (1990) 73: I may be more ki-ki than some of you trade.