Green’s Dictionary of Slang

(US black) a gay man who dresses as if he were part of the heterosexual hip-hop culture; also attrib.

1997		E. Xavier ‘Banjee Realness’ [title poem] in Pier Queen.
1999		Gaymart.com Queer Sl. in the Gay 90s 🌐 Bungie Boy – Straight-acting, but gay or bi-boy.
2000		Village Voice 18 Jan. 29: Banjee boy categories have been a part of vogue balls since at least the early ’80s.
2002		Luna Music 🌐 The B-side slows to a cantering horse like trot still very heavy on percussion, this is mainly mixed for old skool Banjy boy dancing.