mate n.1
1. (also comate) a friend; thus (Aus.) mate up, to befriend.
Sir Ferumb. 1372: Florippe sayde: ‘Maumecet my mate y-blessed mot þou be For aled þow hast muche debate to-ward þys barnee’ [OED]. | ||
New Custom II ii: Beleeue mee Simplicitie, that will worke us the mischiefe, Hath that same new Jacke gotte him such a mate. | ||
Art of Flattery 6th dialogue 29: Let us [...] fall to drinking, for when I haue well swilde my soule, then am I a mate for all companies. | ||
Of Virgil his Æneis III: My mates launcht forward theyre fleete. | ||
Three Lords and Three Ladies of London C 5: Now happie may we call this meris day my mates, Wherein we meet. | ||
Greene’s Ghost Haunting Coniecatchers dedic. A4: Yet there be more notorious strumpets and their mates about the Citie and the suburbs, than euer were before the Marshall was appointed: idle mates I meane. | ||
Life and Death of Gamaliel Ratsey 7: London, thinking there to finde men of all facultie, and copes-mates to fit his humour. | ||
’Tis Pity She’s a Whore III ix: Why, how now, friends! What saucy mates are you / That know nor duty nor civility? | ||
Barnabees Journal II L8: Yea, my merry mates and I too / Oft to th’ Cardinals Hat fly to. | ||
Love’s Victory 56: Lost! hey – ’tis no matter and we were Both lost, so we could find some of our old Mates again – Ich can’t abide these Courtknowles. | ||
Virgil Travestie (1765) Bk IV 75: Over and over then she treats / Him, and his Mates, with sundry Meats. | ||
Sauny the Scot I i: Mates, Madam, ’Faith, no Mates for you, unless you were a little Tamer. | ||
‘The Joviall Crew or Beggers-Bush’ in Broadside Ballads No. 150: We billet our Mates, / At vey low rates. | ||
Whiggs Supplication Pt II 13: Among the rest he did espy ones, Whom he conceived to be Hee-ones: Those he believed were his Mates. | ||
Hist. of the Remarkable Life of John Sheppard 8: He and his MATE were now in a strong and well-guarded Prison. | ||
Songs Comic and Satyrical 228: To the Hospital dragg’d him [...] Tom cry’d out – At Bedlam is madness refus’d? / His Comate reply’d – Brother Tom do not fret. | ‘Tom o’ Bedlam’||
Tom Shuttle and Blousalinda 9: Then as he lost he fractious grew, / And swore his mates were cheating. | ||
Comic Almanack Aug. 102: Soft, simple innocent! – how well you show / The gentle pastimes of your Cockney mates. | ||
Paved with Gold 265: Whilst my mates are drinking the ‘belch,’ I want to talk business with you. | ||
Bell’s Life in Sydney 20 Feb. 2/6: My mate dere he svere same ting, no mistake. | ||
(con. 1840s–50s) London Labour and London Poor III 69/1: My mate got a nick with a stone just on the head. | ||
Five Years’ Penal Servitude 121: A prisoner gets tobacco [and] a ‘mate’ smells it, and discovers what he has got. | ||
Tag, Rag & Co. 80: That’ll about square the deal [...] Mate and mate, don’t you know. I wouldn’t wish to be under any obligation. | ||
Robbery Under Arms (1922) 236: I’ve always been on the square with you and your mates. | ||
‘Payable Gold’ in Roderick (1972) 24: He attended the funeral of an old Ballarat mate. | ||
Barrack-Room Ballads (1893) 161: I started o’ canteen porter, I finished o’ canteen beer, / But a dose o’ gin that a mate slipped in, it was that that brought me here. | ‘Cells’||
Boy’s Own Paper 10 Nov. 82: Three members of the party killed by the Indians had been his mate. | ||
Snare of the Road 81: Chow Billy and I had been hobo mates for a good many months. | ||
(con. 1900s) Elmer Gantry 91: Elmer and he had been mates; together they had [...] indulged in haymow venery. | ||
Hard Liberty 119: Fellows of Australia! Blokes, and Coves, and Mates! | ||
Mass-Observation Report on Juvenile Drinking 8: ‘I don’t drink with me mates, only when me mother and father gets some in for a barney, and then we have a “go” at it.’ (Boy, 16, Fulham). | ||
(con. 1940s) Borstal Boy 247: Where’s your mate, Behan? | ||
Living Black 218: If a man is good enough to be himself and stand up for his mate, he’s a man. A mate’s a mate. | ||
Doing Time 110: I’ve got one good friend here and he’s a real mate because we went through a lot together. | ||
Songlines 62: You and me could be mates, Bru. | ||
Happy Like Murderers 49: It was only when she was with her mates that she got brave. With her mates and dancing. | ||
Observer Screen 16 Jan. 20: He won’t rape me ’cos he’s my mate. |
2. (orig. Aus.) a general term of address to a man, usu. by a man.
‘Jack Oakum in the Suds’ in | (1975) I 133: He cried, bear a hand mate, now with you I’ll go.||
Tom Cladpole’s Jurney to Lunnun 14: Good night ol’ mate Says I; an den turn’d in. | ||
Mysteries and Miseries of N.Y. III 10: Leave that to the Justice, mate, we’ve enough on our hands now. | ||
Newcomes I 344: Hullo, mate, what ship’s that? | ||
Broad Arrow Jack 22: Look here, mates, there’s something more earthly in this. | ||
Cheltenham Chron. 3 Dec. 2/1: The poor beings showed me sympathy; they called me ‘mate’. | ||
Knocking About in N.Z. 92: Well mate, what luck? | ||
Life and Work among Navvies 105: What do you say, mate, to goin’ next Sunday? | ||
‘Cherry-Tree Inn’ in Roderick (1967–9) I 85: Do you think, my old mate (if it’s thinking you be) / Of the days when you tramped to the goldfields with me? | ||
Boy’s Own Paper 8 Dec. 152: Feel better, mate? | ||
We of the Never-Never (1962) 125: ‘Good evening, mates,’ he said dismounting. | ||
Marvel 15 Oct. 20: It’s all right, mate! | ||
Moods of Ginger Mick 23: ’E sez to me, ‘Well, mate, I’ve done me luck; / An’ Rose is arstin’, “Wot about this war?”’. | ‘War’ in||
Final Count 811: ’E ain’t been in London long, ’ave yer, mate? | ||
Family from One End Street 125: £500 reward, and we’d retire for life, mate. | ||
Man From Clinkapella 3: You’ll be alright, mate. | ||
Bang To Rights 18: How long you doing mate? | ||
Crust on its Uppers 35: Wrong number, mate. | ||
Inside the Und. 43: Only the best, mates. | ||
Songlines 33: See you around, mate. | ||
Bad Debts (2012) [ebook] Mate, [...] mate, what’s your name? | ||
Powder 40: I reckon we’re on, I really do, mate. | ||
Turning (2005) 2: Up north, mate, think north! | ‘Big World’ in||
Independent 5 Jan. 🌐 Many other [teenage] words belong to MLE—multi-ethnic or multicultural London English— [...] Among the most pervasive are bruv, mate, bare, fam, gwop, or peas (money), and chirpsin’, linkin’, and lipsin’—flirting, dating, and kissing respectively. |
In derivatives
(Aus.) the state of friendship.
Breaking Out 322: That’s what I like — good old Aussie mateship. |
In compounds
1. (orig. Aus.) discounted rates made available to friends of the business/enterprise.
et al. Versatility of Kinship 198: One of our friends can ‘get it for us wholesale,’ another will do the job at ‘mate’s rates’. | ||
Rednecks, Eggheads and Blackfells 352: Tacit rules for nepotistic relations where a friend or relation is meant to charge ‘mates rates’. | ||
Master of the Ceremonies 266: As a major Olympic sponsor, they were pretty pleased to discover that we were ordering large quantities without even asking for mate’s rates. | ||
Stacy 11: I bet she’s paying ‘mate’s rates’ though. |
2. (N.Z.) payment in cash; no actual friendship need be involved.
Dict. of Kiwi Sl. 72/2: mate’s rates payment that may not involve the Inland Revenue department, usually for trade work, not necessarily involving mates. | ||
Reed Dict. of N.Z. Sl. [as cit. 1988]. |
In phrases
a very unpopular individual.
Guardian Year ’98 174: I think everyone else thought I was just a snob, but underneath I was hurting. A favourite remark was ‘Billy no mates’. | ||
ref. to 1990s) | What Made The Crocodile Cry? 153: As far as we know there was no single unfortunate Billy No Mates. The term originated in the early 1990s as a T-shirt slogan.||
Guardian 17 June 16/2: She is ‘cripplingly shy’ [...] ‘I was a total Nigel-No-Mates’. | ||
Dead Man’s Trousers 122: How pathetically nae-mates this sounding. | ||
Twitter 24 Mar. 🌐 [Boris Johnson solitary at NATO meeting] Boris No-Mates, all self-inflicted. |
(Aus.) a generic term for an otherwise nameless individual, who may or may not be an actual stranger.
Aussie Bull 33: ‘You’ve got enough troubles with her on your hands, old mate’ . | ||
Aus. Word Map n.p.: old mate Frequently used by adolescents when referring to a man known to them. ‘Old mate’ or ‘old matey’ is a substitute for using the man’s name. Interchangeable for ‘bloke,’ ‘guy’ or ‘fella’: I saw old mate about signing up for the footy team. | ||
Aus. Word Map n.p.: old mate [...] A stranger, someone you have just met. As a greeting ‘Gidday old mate’ as a referral ‘Ask old mate over there’. | ||
in Ozwords 10 Apr. [internet] I have come across another Australian word recently in the hospitality trade. It is the word mate, which is being used in an interesting way in the compound term old mate. As an example, when a restaurant customer drops his fork on the floor, my manager will say to me: ‘Can you get old mate on table twelve a new fork?’ Another staff member will point someone out to me, saying: ‘Check out old mate standing by the bar’. |