fuck-me, adj. — Green’s Dictionary of Slang

fuck-me adj.

also do-it-to-me, lay-me

outrageous, esp. when extremely sexy.

1960		‘Sheldon Lord’ Kept 12: She was a skinny little kid with clear blue eyes and a nice-if-boyish body and white teeth that flashed in a lay-me smile whenever there was a man within shooting distance.
1986		E. Weiner Howard the Duck 29: She was clad in luscious gold lamé and do-it-to-me high heels.
1986		L. Heinemann Paco’s Story (1987) 187: Cathy in one of her famous, low-cut, summery ‘come-fuck-me’ dresses.
1993		A. Rodriguez Spidertown (1994) 46: All the loudmouthed bitches were out in force in their fuck-me clothes.
1997		M. Walters Echo 43: I could no more pose weepy-eyed over where Billy died than I could wear your fuck-me clothes or your fuck-me make-up.
1999		K. Sampson Powder 213: Pure club babe fuck-me gear.
2000		Guardian G2 2 Mar. 8: Jones [...] hunted for outfits that would straddle the divide between chic and fuck-me.
2003		G. Tate Midnight Lightning 58: He had a fuck-me voice and a fuck-me guitar.
2006		G. Malkani Londonstani (2007) 19: She was wearin one a them fuck-me miniskirts and fuck-me-harder knee-high boots.
2006		P. Carey Theft 128: Paco Rabanne shoes with fuck-me heels.
2012		T. Robinson ‘Hot Enough For Ya?’ in Dirty Words [ebook] [W]hether or not to [...] flash his practiced fuck-me smile.
2017		L. McInerney Blood Miracles 79: ‘[A]llowing you and your fuck-me eyes to lay siege to my common sense?’.

In compounds

fuck-me boots (n.) (also FM boots, fuck-me booties)

(US) sexually alluring footwear, usu. as worn by a woman, and thus featuring high heels (cit. 1980 refers to a homosexual man).

1980		A. Maupin More Tales of the City (1984) 85: Knee socks with Lands End come-fuck-me boots.
1990		S. Morgan Homeboy 315: She wore [...] fuckme booties with turnedup elfin toes.
2001		Eble Campus Sl. Fall 4: FM BOOTS – (from ‘fuck me’ boots) tall, heeled, black genuine or synthetic leather boots worn by a female.
2001		Google Groups: nz.reg.wellington.general 5 Nov. 🌐 Boganette. Young, trailer-trash type female, wearing a miniskirt (black) and FMBs (F**k Me Boots).
2003		McGill Reed Dict. of N.Z. Sl. 81: FM/FY boots Fuck me or fuck you footwear, usually with exaggeratedly high heels and/or dangerously pointy toes, part of tarty apparel along with tacky blonde hair and very short skirt. Late C20.

fuck-me eyes (n.) (also fuck eyes)

(US) flirtatious, sexually encouraging stares or glances.

1989		P. Munro Sl. U. 86: fuck-me eyes/fuck eyes flirtatious stares or glances.
1997		K. Kainulainen ‘University Euphemisms in Calif. Today’ 🌐 Some of the expressions that have to do with sex are actually more obscene than the original expressions. ‘Fuckstrated’ meaning ‘sexually frustrated’ or ‘fuck-me-eyes’ from the movie ‘Cocktail’ meaning flirtatious stares or glances are examples.
2005		C. WunderLee Loony 31: This blond siren [was] giving him the fuck-me eyes reserved for men with goatees.

fuck-me shoes (n.) (also catch-me-fuck-me-pumps, follow-me-home-and-fuck-me shoes, fuck-me pumps, fuck-me’s, fuck-me specials, hump-me pumps) [as orig. worn, at least for mass delectation, by film star Joan Crawford (1906–77)]

any form of female footwear, typically high-heeled and strappy, seen as provocatively sexy, rather than practical.

1972		B. Rodgers Queens’ Vernacular 118: pumps, [...] fuck-me’s.
1980		Maledicta IV:2 (Winter) 237: Joan Crawford’s ankle-strap wedgies (called fuck-me shoes).
1992		K. Lette Llama Parlour 83: Tash, she’s my friend, calls these her ‘follow-me-home-and-fuck-me’ high heels.
1996		S. Frank Get Shorty [film script] I know I’m better than what I’ve been doing the last ten years, walking around in a tank top and fuck-me pumps, waiting till it’s time to scream.
1997		E. Little Another Day in Paradise 72: Rosie is wearing a tiny black dress and the catch-me-fuck-me-pumps we got her.
1999		N. Cohn Yes We Have No 57: She was wearing fuck-me shoes.
2001		K. Sampson Outlaws (ms.) 87: No matter how people think they’re the last word in classy and that, sophisticated footwear and all of that, your Manolo is a basic fuck-me shoe.
2002		D.H. Sterry Chicken (2003) 146: Peter Pan’s wearing green stiletto hump-me pumps.
2003		www.thepantsman.com 🌐 I immediately developed half a mongrel at the site of Elina scantily clad in a short black skirt, boots and leather jacket. She had the fuck-me pumps on.
2004		E. Weiner Drop Dead, My Lovely (2005) 172: Karen got the fuck-me specials.
2016		Times 1 Oct. 🌐 Unfortunately they were off camera when he [i.e. Jeremy Paxman] once asked Theresa May if she was wearing ‘f*** me’ shoes.
2016		T. Robinson Rough Trade [ebook] [M]y brother was still in full makeup, driving in an evening gown and fuck-me pumps.
2019		N. Walker Cherry 40: She always wore fuck-me shoes, rain or shine.