feel v.
1. to caress sexually, whether or not the advance is desired.
Works (1869) II 98: Touching or Feeling is a very merry Bawd, and though a man or woman can neither Heare, See, Taste or Smell, yet Feeling may remaine’ without which ‘all the rest of the senses were but senslesse’. | ‘Bawd’ in||
Diary 7 Sept. n.p.: [I] did feel her; which I am much ashamed of, but I did no more, though I had so much a mind to it that I spent in my breeches. | ||
‘Fairing for Young Men and Maids’ in Roxburghe Ballads (1893) VII:1 111: The Maids were not unwilling, as far as I understand, / But Will was for kissing and feeling a Maid upon every hand. | ||
‘A Medley’ in Merry Drollery Compleat (1875) 140: We’ll play with Peggy and Molly, / Dance, and kiss, and Feel. | ||
Infallible Predictor in Writings II 361: A great many strong Beasts will be there to be seen, and a great many worse Creatures to be felt. | ||
London-Bawd (3rd edn) 143: [He] would needs have been feeling where I was’nt willing to let him. | ||
Correct List of the Sporting Ladies [broadsheet] You sportsmen, who are free and willing / To feel, you’re welcome for a shilling. | ||
Satirist (London) 15 July 229/3: It was the pithy and appropriate reply of Miss Bagster [...] as to what took place in the postchaise to Scotland, that such question was meant as a feeler. | ||
Cythera’s Hymnal 72: Take your hand off my quim; / I much prefer fucking to feeling. | ||
My Secret Life (1966) I 56: Have you felt a woman before? | ||
Dead Bird (Sydney) 6 Sept. 2/2: A Sydney youth was making himself very agreeable to two young ladies [...] when a well-known society lady passing by said, ‘Well, Mr. Blank, this is a case of a thorn between two roses.’ ‘Yes,’ gushed one of the girls, ‘but he’s been awfully nice, and hasn’t let us feel him yet’. | ||
Art of Child-Love 97: ‘Well, little girl, I want to feel you,’ he said [...] he told me that he wished to put his hand between helen’s legs and mine. | ||
Lustful Memoirs of a Young and Passionated Girl 37: I stood still only spreading my legs and let him feel. | ||
Anecdota Americana II 26: I says ‘Go ’long an’ leave me be.’ But he doan pay no ’tention, judge. He just keeps feelin’ of me. | ||
(con. 1944) Naked and Dead 228: Take those two kids [...] feeling each other in that booth. | ||
Lead With Your Left (1958) 28: Keep your feelings for your girlfriends. | ||
All Night Stand 49: She cornered me when we had our break, and I was forced into feeling her. | ||
Strange Peaches 278: This one boy [...] thought he was so cool, but he just acted crazy. He tried to feel me’. | ||
Maledicta IV:2 (Winter) 197: Alternatively, she may like to play hot cockles or allow someone else to fumble, feel or finger-fuck her. | ||
Vinnie Got Blown Away 166: Fucking beautiful birds some of them, got to feel a few at school only a feel’s all you get unless you get it before nine o’clock. | ||
Big Ask 235: ‘I hope you’re feeling better soon.’ ‘I hope I’m feeling you soon.’. | ||
Apples (2023) 1: I broke with Fairhurst after he felt Rachel’s tit at a party. |
2. (US black) to empathize with; thus affirmatory phr. I feel you.
Hear Me Talking to Ya 356: He couldn’t feel it. | ||
It’s Always Four O’Clock 150: He sang a jump tune [...] He belted it, he rocked, he was awkward as an ape, but he felt it and it came across. | [W.R. Burnett]||
Down These Mean Streets (1970) 215: I played my cool role. I didn’t feel the picture much. It was like mixing rice and beans with corned beef and cabbage. | ||
Tuff 12: Why you walking so fast? Hurrying to help the kids with their homework? I feel you. The capital of Kansas is Topeka, that’s all I remember. | ||
Ebonics Primer at www.dolemite.com 🌐 ‘I feel ya’ Definition: same as ‘Yes, I understand what you are saying.’ Example: Ay yo, man, I feel ya. Bitches are always trippin. | ||
Portable Promised Land (ms.) 183: I’m kinda feelin him [...] He’s a sexy lil MC. | ||
Wire ep. 1 [TV script] Don’t plan on knowing shit about jail. You feel me? | ‘The Target’||
Campus Sl. Apr. | ||
Londonstani (2007) 45: I ain’t feelin the word crib either cos that’s what American babies sleep in. | ||
Dirty South 82: I’m not feeling any love from you right now. | ||
Running the Books 81: Yo, your kite was right!! [...] I’m feelin’ that! | ||
tweet on http://www.buzzfeed.com 12 May 🌐 u go for a cheeky nandos wif the lads but u arent feelin the banter cos u got absolutely battered in the election. | ||
Cherry 204: We went back to my apartment and there was no more coke and Megan wasn’t feeling it. She said, ‘Take me home, Libby’. | ||
Blacktop Wasteland 74: ‘We all straight. Don’t get high. Don’t pop no Oxy. Don’t smoke a blunt’ [...] ‘I feel ya’. | ||
What They Was 31: I guess the gyaldem were feeling him. | ||
Didn’t Nobody Give a Shit 56: ‘I ain’t sure what’s your issue, but you better have it somewheres else and at some other time, you feel me?’. |
3. to arrest.
It Was An Accident 3: Ain’t you got no villains to feel George? |
SE in slang uses
In phrases
1. to feel insecure, esp. financially.
Keepers of the Desert 173: Business was good but shipping [...] was beginning to feel the breeze and the more far-seeing underwriters at Lloyds were beginning to talk doubtfully of the future. | ||
DSUE (8th edn) 384/2: 1925. |
2. (US black) to sense racial antagonism in one’s conversation or dealings with whites; thus drafty adj., unfriendly to blacks [the phr. is generally credited to the jazz musician Lester Young (1909–59)].
The Clown [album liner notes] Mingus feels the slightest draft, even when no draft is there. | ||
Esquire Sept. 91: The term ‘I feel a draft’ is used by Negro musicians when there’s evidence in a restaurant — or elsewhere — of Jim Crow. Ironically, white musicians who have played with Negro groups have sometimes used the same phrse in order to tell each other that they’re being frozen out of the conversation or an afterhours party. | ||
Jazz Lex. xix: I feel a draft [...] usually means that the Negro speaker suspects hostility or discrimination directed against him by a white. | ||
Sl. and Sociability 83: About 70 items refer to whites or African Americans or to relationships between them. [...] feel a draft means ‘sense racial prejudice’. |
3. (US black) to warn one’s friends that a white person has entered the room.
(con. 1940s–50s) Juba to Jive. |
to feel unwell.
Le Slang. |
to feel pleasantly drunk.
🎵 Young Spifkins and Jones, two smart clerks in the city, / Have been on the ‘ran-dan’ and feel just all right. | [perf. George Leyton] ‘The best of friends must part’
to feel the nauseous after-effects of drinking on ‘the morning after’.
Soldiers Three (1907) 100: Whin I roused the dhrink was dyin’ out inme, an’ I felt as though a she-cat had littered in me mouth. | ‘Black Jack’ in||
True Drunkard’s Delight. |
see under cheap adj.
see under froggy adj.2
1. to feel (unpleasantly) drunk.
Sl. and Its Analogues. | ||
True Drunkard’s Delight 226: He is feeling funny. | ||
Amer. Thes. Sl. |
2. to feel very emotional.
‘Windham Lunacy Case’ in Curiosities of Street Lit. (1871) 130: Oh, the money, the money, they wanted the money, / And that was the thing made the parties feel funny. | ||
Naked and Dead 280: It’s gonna make him feel mighty funny. |
3. to feel ill.
‘Pissed Off and Passed Out’ Diary 31 Oct. on Jealous Monk 🌐 I am feeling funny now, so I decide to head back to the bed room. I stand up, excuse myself, and head to the door of the dining room, but never make it. When I regain all senses, I find the world turned sideways. |
1. to feel in good spirits or health; thus feel-good adj., life-affirming.
Diary in America II 224: I don’t feel at all good, this morning [DA]. | ||
Journal of Discourses II 224: You will see how good we will make the transient residents feel [DA]. | ||
Texas Siftings 15 Sept. n.p.: The saloons are going Saturday afternoon, and the men feel pretty good before they come abroad [F&H]. | ||
N.Y. Eve. Post 23 June 3: The captain himself said, ‘I feel good,’ but he did not look well [DA]. | ||
Collier’s 26 Jan. 8/4: I began to feel pretty good [DA]. | ||
Guardian G2 18 June 10: It combines a push-up effect with the all-important feel-good factor. | ||
Guardian Rev. 14 Jan. 4: Real, feel-good laughs. | ||
Trans 178: To Luka, gender-affirming care is ‘a feel-good term to use so you do not have to face the reality that a sixteen-year-old is getting their breasts cut off’. |
2. to feel mildly drunk, to begin to experience a drug.
Forty Years a Gambler 246: The lad was feeling pretty good by this time, and he could not let a gentleman treat without returning the compliment, you know. | ||
Congaree Sketches 84: He missed the water and got hold of the whiskey glass, and he got to feeling good and commenced to preach [DARE]. | ||
Kingdom of Swing 107: [E]verybody had a few drinks and was feeling good. | ||
Amer. Thes. of Sl. 106.7: Drunk. . . feeling . . good [DARE]. | ||
Rock 86: A cat gets up [...] He’s feeling good, singing. | ||
Hustler 31: I guess Callie was feelin’ pretty good ‘cause she had been drinkin’, and she set on my lap and kissed me. | ||
Ball Four Plus Ball Five 414: One afternoon we all came back feeling pretty good. | ||
The World Don’t Owe Me Nothing 40: We'd go out with our guitars, try to get a good shot of that white whiskey and feel good. |
(Aus.) to feel exhausted.
Argot in DAUS (1993). | ||
Last Blue Sea 128: Your feet wear down to the ankles, and your get falls in like a bag of string, but your mind stays quite clear to the end. |
to feel ill.
Lionel Harcourt, the Etonian 263: I feel like a boiled rag. If I once get into bed, I don’t believe I shall get up again for a week. | ||
Heart and Sword 156: I feel like a boiled rag [...] I will tell you what it is, Violet, I want a holiday. | ||
Pall Mall Mag. XL 760/2: ‘I always feel like a piece of chewed string afterwards.’ The rest of us felt the same, and said it. | ||
Mark 187: ‘I feel like a boiled rag.’ ‘As you played the same tune to four different songs , I should not have thought the strain would have been so very great.’. | ||
Capt. Anthony Wilding 213: Have gone too quick, and feel like a piece of chewed string. | ||
Air Ministry, Room 28 239: And now I’d better try to get some sleep, otherwise I’ll feel like a piece of chewed rag in the morning. | ||
Man from Nowhere 253: I’ve got a heavy day tomorrow, I shall feel like a piece of chewed string and be about as useful. | ||
DSUE (8th edn) 385/1: feel like a boiled rag [...] C.20. | ||
🌐 I never did like working with mentals, for it takes so much out of me. I feel like a piece of chewed string after duty ... Shell shock is fearful, worse than death. | in Baker Nightingales in the Mud on ANZAC Day Commemoration Committee||
🌐 Another important aspect of Collaborative Review is that it offers the opportunity for the practitioner to talk through difficulties with clients [...] whose level of neediness drains the practitioner and reduces their effectiveness in establishing a therapeutic relationship with clients (‘I just feel like a chewed rag after being with him, I think I’m losing my boundaries somewhere’). | on Bryant-Jeffries
(US) to be extremely hungover, to be very exhausted, run down.
Harper’s Mag. Aug. 367/1: I felt, to use a certain figurative expression, ‘like a boiled owl’ [DA]. | ||
Hans Breitmann in Europe 246: Dwo weeks der Breitmann studiet, / Vile he vent it on de howl, / Ile shpree so moosh to find de troot, / Dat he lookt like a bi-led owl. | ‘Breitsmann in Holland’ in||
Journal of Amer. Folklore V 60: To feel like a stewed owl, or like a stewed monkey. More idiomatically, like a biled owl [DA]. | ||
Rising Sun (Kansas City, MO) 14 Apr. 3/3: What was that stuff I drank last night, and why [...] do I feel like the second joint of a stewed owl this morning? | ||
DN III iii 187: feel like a boiled owl, v. phr. To be nervously exhausted, as from loss of sleep. ‘I feel like a boiled owl this morning.’. | ‘Word-List from Hampstead, N.H.’ in||
DN III:v 375: stewed witch, n. phr. Used to indicate a very uncomfortable bodily condition or state or feeling. ‘I feel like a stewed witch this morning.’. | ‘Word-List From East Alabama’ in||
letter dated 1904 in Bisbee Dly Rev. (AZ) 10 Dec. 3/4: By the time I get to five o’clock in the afternoon I will be feeling like a stewed owl. | ||
Lancs Eve. Post 23 Mar. 4/5: Here is a man [...] who has so saturated himself with drink [...] that he looks like a boiled owl. |
to feel absolutely appalling, often used by those suffering from hangovers (cf. look like death warmed up under look like... v.).
N&Q 12 Ser. IX 503: Death Warmed Up (To Feel Like). To feel ill. | ||
Hull Dly Mail 2 Jan. 6/4: There are asses who say, 'Got a cold?' when you totter into the ofice feeling like death warmed up. | ||
Hartlepool Mail 9 Mar. 5/2: A motorist who, according to the police, said after a fatality that he ‘felt like death warmed up’. | ||
Escape to Danger n.p.: For hours and hours he had to stick to the controls, feeling like death warmed up. | ||
Yorks. Post 10 Dec. 5/2: ‘ don’t feel like death warmed up,’ he said. | ||
Campus Sl. Fall 3: death [...] After last night’s party I feel like death on a bun. | ||
Guardian 19 Dec. 🌐 ‘We’re both absolutely exhausted all the time,’ he says, ‘but I’m quite happy to feel like death warmed up to feel like a family.’. |
see under shit n.
(US campus) to feel humiliated, embarrassed.
Sl. U. |
(W.I., Rasta) don’t take offence, don’t be sorry, don’t worry.
🎵 No bother feel no way / It’s coming close to payday, / I say No bother feel no way. | ‘Feel No Way’
to manipulate a sexual partner to orgasm.
Campus Sl. Mar. 3: feel off – to manipulate another person’s sexually sensitive areas of the body. | ||
Nubile Treat 🌐 He pressed his thumb against her clit, and she pressed his prick in reply. It was so nice for both of them that each was tempted to just feel the other off. |
see piss n. (1)
(UK Und.) to arrest, to place under suspicion.
Lag’s Lex. 49: To ‘get your collar felt (or touched)’ is to be arrested or stopped by the police. | ||
London After Dark 11: Next time it came my way to ‘feel his collar’ for possessing stolen goods I would see the judge was told. | ||
(con. 1920s) Burglar to the Nobility 72: The Law is reaching out for my collar over this Mappin and Webb job. | ||
You Flash Bastard 28: Transferring as a DCI might have been a prospect, only in the Squad they were generally administrative and rarely got to feel a collar. | ||
Spike Island (1981) 86: You miss the hurly-burly, getting out and feeling a few collars. | ||
Scholar 275: They surged through the council flat like a human tidal wave, eager to feel some collars and seize some product. | ||
Hell on Hoe Street 39: Some geezer tapped me on the shoulder. Fact he felt my collar [...] He was Karachi Old Bill. | ||
Empty Wigs (t/s) 402: She can recall Suave Ted advising her not to risk driving: ‘You don’t want to get your collar felt’. |
1. to be inconvenienced, suffering the consequences of something.
Westminster Gaz 27 Apr. n.p.: When the wind changed it might be the Conservative Party which would be feeling the draught [OED]. | ||
Guardian 2 Jan. 🌐 Birmingham are none the less feeling the draught of suspensions on top of injuries. |
2. to have serious money problems.
Surfeit of Lampreys 103: ‘Did he go bust?’ [...] ‘I don’t think so, Curtis. Must have felt the draught a bit.’. | ||
Listener 9 June 831/2: With only so much national advertising to go round [...], the oldest commercial stations are feeling the draught as well. | ||
Financial Times 13 Apr. 13/3: If the BSC or the bigger firms in the private sector felt the draught and turned their attention to smaller orders, the lesser firms could suffer badly to the point of extinction . | ||
Guardian 7 Jan. 🌐 In the US, growth is slowing fast as the manufacturing sector struggles against cheap Asian imports. Moreover, the non-manufacturing sector is now feeling the draught. |
(US black) to get hurt.
A2Z. | et al.
(Aus. prison) to inject heroin.
Aus. Prison Sl. Gloss. 🌐 Feel the steel. Inject heroin. |
see separate entries.
(US) a dismissive phr.
‘Tra-la-la-loo’ [ballad] And when I bid her stay at home, she says ‘Go feel around.’. |