play v.
1. to trick, to deceive.
Agenst Garnesche v line 37: Soche pajantes with your fryndes ye play, With trechery ye them betray. | ||
Death and Buriall of Martin Mar-Prelate in Works I (1883–4) 201: Play still the desperate and shameles Swadds as you haue begonn; for you couch your Coddheads. | ||
Hamlet Travestie II ii: Od’s life, D’ye think I’m easier play’d on than a fife? I’m not the booby you may think. | ||
Ingoldsby Legends (1842) 51: Lord Bassanio [...] In the morning ‘made play,’ / And without more delay, / Started off in the steam-boat for Belmont next day. | ‘The Merchant of Venice’||
Army Police Record in Annals of the Army of the Cumberland 585: Inquiries [...] disclosed the fact that Stewart was a rebel of the deepest dye and had been ‘playing off’ all the time. | ||
Scribner’s Monthly XV 812/1: Ye went back on her, and shook her, and played on her, and gave her away—dead away! [DA]. | ||
(con. c.1840) Huckleberry Finn 226: They ain’t a-going to leave till they’ve played this family and this town for all they’re worth. | ||
Aberdeen Eve. Exp. 7 Oct. 4/1: Don’t you see how I played it on him! | ||
Tom Sawyer, Detective 68: You’re right; play it on us, too; play it on us same as the others. | ||
Dock Rats of N.Y. (2006) 114: ‘I’m your man! Now, what information have you got for me?’ ‘You can’t play me,’ said the fellow. ‘No; nor can you play me. Listen: how much are you to get for laying me out?’. | ||
‘Minnie May’ in Singing Soldiers (1927) 35: Now Abner didn’t mind dat gal rompin’ aroun’ / But when she played ’im double, he put ’er under de groun’. | ||
London and its Criminals 30: She hoped to ‘play’ him for a much larger sum later. | ||
Rough Stuff 85: He told me that he was playing the people, meaning that he was playing a con-racket – getting subscriptions for the mission – and keeping half for himself. | ||
Farewell, My Lovely (1949) 248: I bet it’s fun to be played by handsome blondes. | ||
DAUL 159/2: Play, v. 1. To prepare to victimize, especially as the victim of a swindle; to mulct slowly and with restraint, as a victim of swindling or extortion. | et al.||
Sat. Night and Sun. Morning 160: Them bastards downstairs really played one on me this time. | ||
‘Duriella du Fontaine’ in Life (1976) 45: She’s real down, known all around; / Playing is her stick. | et al.||
(con. 1950s) Whoreson 157: I knew I had been born to play. | ||
Scholar 77: Don’t feel fe one second dat me a play, or ramp wid you y’know. | ||
Amaze Your Friends (2019) 1698: ‘I was a goose. Rodney played me, without even trying’. | (con. late 1950s)||
(con. 1986) Sweet Forever 123: Go on, girl. Don’t play me, hear? | ||
Snitch Jacket 159: He’s a conman, a crook trying to play you. | ||
Mail On Line 27 Jan. 🌐 She is cold-blooded [...] talking about all the n****s she got and how she played them. | ||
? (Pronounced Que) [ebook] You tryin’ to play me, B?! | ||
UNC-CH Campus Sl. Spring 2016 7: PLAYED — taken advantage of, fooled, deceived: ‘You fall for that? You just got played’. | (ed.)||
Scrublands [ebook] ‘I’m going to keep Jack’s little fuck-up out of the investigation — the bit where be got played by Snouch’. | ||
Straight Dope [ebook] [Y]ou’re being played like a drum by our dear, sweet Angela. | ||
Opal Country 251: ‘They won’t believe in her innocence; they’ll think she played them’. | ||
May God Forgive 232: Had the feeling he was being played and he didn’t like it. |
2. (also play turnabout) to pursue sexually; to seduce; to engage in sexual activity .
Hickscorner Civ: And of the stewes I am made controller Of all the houses of lechery There shall no man playe doccy there [...] without they haue leaue of me. | ||
Pennyless Parliament of Thread-bare Poets 67: Some shall suspect their Wives at Home, because they themselves play false Abroad. | ||
Ram-Alley IV i: Can you play better? | ||
School of Complement II i: bub.: Where is your daughter, sir? there is no Musick without her, she is the best Instrument to play upon. ruf.: And you shall have her between your legs presently. bub.: I had as liefe be betwixt hers, for all that. | ||
Parson’s Wedding (1664) IV i: She is a right broken Gamester, who, though she lacks wherewithal to play, yet loves to be looking on. | ||
‘The Four-legg’d Quaker’ Rump Poems and Songs (1662) I 358: Yet this is ten times worse; / For then a Dog did play the Man, / But Man now play’d the Horse. | ||
Order of the Beggar's Benison and Merryland (1892) 27: Dinner Sentiments [...] Query — Why is a young belle like a Fiddle? Answer — Because she needs a Beau to Play upon her. | ||
‘Sally Mac Gee’ in A. Carpenter Verse in Eng. in 18C Ireland (1998) 513: The night being come, we to sport went merrily, / And while we were playing, I sure did make free, / His pockets did plunder. | ||
‘The Gobbio’ Chap Book Songs 7: Dear Sir, I like well your company, / When you play again I pray march slow, / And a guard-house make of my Gobbio-O. | ||
Merry Muses of Caledonia (1965) 195: Shall we, quo they, ne’er sport or play, / Nor wag our tails again. | ‘Tweedmouth Town’||
Friar and Boy 29: I may fix a ringing bell / In every woman’s snout / Who does the wagtail wanton play / With friars in the dark. | ||
in Erotic Muse (1992) 69: I played with her for quite some time, and learned to my surprise, / She was nothing but a fire ship rigged up in a disguise. | ||
(con. 1918) Mattock 277: I told myself I was playin’ her on your account. | ||
🎵 She likes to park and play, / I never liked to park and play, / But I guess we’d better park and play, / So that’s my weakness now. | ‘That’s My Weakness Now’||
Afro-American (Baltimore, MD) 6 Apr. 15/1: Can you imagine an ofay doing a cover-up for a sepia guy who was playing an ofay gal? | ‘The Whirling Hub’ in||
in Erotic Muse (1992) 54: I am growing old and gray every year. / And I have less urge to play every year. | ||
‘Back Door Stuff’ 6 Nov. [synd. col.] All married women who are out there ‘playing’ [...] to get even with their husbands. | ||
Tomboy (1952) 163: Jiggs was trying to play me when Tomboy opened the door and saw us. | ||
No Sunlight Singing (1966) 194: ‘You watch yourself, mate,’ cautioned Les. ‘Remember you’re in Darwin now, not W.A. It’s dynamite if you’re caught playing with abos in this town.’. | ||
Cross of Lassitude 120: ‘You playing?’ Sugar asks [...] Baby blushes, or at least her cheeks become moister and ruddier. The word ‘playing,’ with its sexual connotation, suggests also the innocence of those who ‘play,’ and the boredom which makes ‘playing’ necessary. | ||
IOL News (SA) 27 Mar. 🌐 She alleges that he later came to her desk, took out his penis and said, ‘Come play with me’. |
3. to be involved in an affair outside one’s primary relationship.
‘The Lord of the Country’ in | II (1979) 52: Because she was handsome & willing for to play / In the morning, or the evening, or the noon time of the day.||
Sporting Times 30 June 1/4: I wonder if your better half knows that you / Are out—what shall I call it?—out playing! | ‘In Vino Veritas’||
Long Wait (1954) 69: ‘How was she?’ ‘Bare. She wanted to play. I didn’t.’. | ||
in Hellhole 235: I might play with a femme or several femmes for the money they’ve got [...] So what I mean is, when I play in jail, it’s got nothing to do with Patricia, really. | ||
Random Family 163: He was calculating about playing girls. |
4. to conduct oneself; to approach a situation; to act in a certain way; thus play it... v.
Artie (1963) 78: Do n’t be leary about cuttin’ in. Just play you owned the house. | ||
Twenty Years on Broadway 46: Josie, as she said this, gave me the high sign to ‘play dead’. | ||
Little Caesar (1932) 12: You play like you don’t know them. | ||
Night and the City 209: You could have done what you liked with me as long as you played straight. | ||
interviewee q. in Work Ms in Gordon & Nemerov Lost Delta Found (2005) 78: If you plays green an' lucky an' makes 'em believe you's a hard workin' boy you can practically break ever-body who come along. Ever-body plays a workin'-man as a fool. | ||
Suicide Hill 232: [H]e did not read, sound, feel, or in any way play as a killer. | ||
(con. early 1950s) L.A. Confidential 326: Let me play him solo. | ||
Workin’ It 117: She don’t play that drug thing in her house or none of that. | ||
Thanksgiving 15: Don’t try playing the hick with me. |
5. (also play out) to manipulate, to exploit, to ‘use’ someone.
Luck of Roaring Camp 10: It’s playing it pretty low down on this yer baby to ring in fun on him that he ain’t going to understand. | ||
Heritage of Dedlow Marsh 100: The folks you trust is playing it on ye [DA]. | ||
Forty Modern Fables 302: His Son got hold of him and began to beat it into him that he had been Played. | ||
Clicking of Cuthbert 88: I tell you, I played on them as on a stringed instrument. | ||
Third Degree (1931) 149: Benny Sternberg ‘played’ the Orpheum Theatre matinées for prospects. | ||
Phenomena in Crime 79: She ‘plays’ him until they [i.e. criminal plans] are more definite. | ||
USA Confidential 41: These gals usually play circuits, working west from New York in groups of ten or twenty. | ||
Pimp 75: If your game is strong, you could play a ‘hog’ outta her ass. | ||
Dead Solid Perfect 162: She developed a reputation as a ‘party girl’ or a ‘swinger,’ or whatever you want to call it. She [. . .] had the knack for being able to play several guys at once . | ||
🎵 I used to be the playa, now I’m gettin pimped [...] Why I let her play me? You cain’t understand! | ‘Use Me Up’||
Pimp’s Rap 21: Pimps might pimp and players might play but bitches will always be bitches. | ||
Night Gardener 28: He chided her for [...] how she let him play her [...] how she always gave in to his wants. | ||
Adventures 213: [P]utting the cat’s name on the tape meant I’d know who played me out. | ||
Joe Country [ebook] She was being played, no question. |
6. (US) to treat someone as.
Ten Story Gang Aug. 🌐 Here I’ve been taking care of that damned Blinkie guy, playing him for a half-wise scout and not letting him get taken. | ‘Clip-Joint Chisellers’ in||
Long White Cloud 194: The little finger played over to the thumb on the mutilated hand. ‘Hmm,’ he said. ‘You didn’t do it out of playin’ sweet jesus, though.’. |
7. (orig. US) to cooperate, to comply, to accept, to tolerate, to make sense; usu. as negative I don’t play that, that doesn’t play.
Red Wind (1946) 173: ‘My ante is in,’ she said quietly. ‘I’ll play.’. | ‘Goldfish’ in||
Harder They Fall (1971) 142: The rest of the boys were willing to play. | ||
On the Waterfront (1964) 45: Johnny Friendly had warned him, but he wouldn’t play. | ||
Corner Boy 110: Mister, I don’t play that. | ||
Howard Street 65: I don’t play that junk, man, and you better know. | ||
Daddy Cool (1997) 91: I don’t play this kind of shit! | ||
Corner (1998) 304: He dresses and looks and walks the same way every kid he knows does; it plays on the corner, but nowhere else. | ||
Random Family 247: There are a lot of dummies up here [...] In the city, they ain’t playing that. |
8. to mock, to make fun of, to tease; also used as a synonym/replacement for dozens n., thus play oneself [1960s+ use is mainly US black].
Austral. at Home 117: Those who pass their lives in the bush generally have their heart in the right place, though they do love to play a new chum . | ||
Good Humor 177: Say, Jedge, don’t you play me. I’m giving it to you straight! | ‘Justice in a Quandary’ in||
‘Playing the Dozens’ in Jnl Amer. Folklore July-Sept. 209: The dozens are commonly called ‘playing’ or ‘sounding,’ and the nature of the terms indicates the kind of procedure involved; ‘playing’ illustrates that a game or contest is being waged [...] Somewhere between the ages of sixteen and twenty-six ‘playing’ begins to lose its effect and passes out of frequent use as an institution. When someone indicates that he wants to start, the one who is supposed to be insulted may reply ‘Oh man, don’t play with me.’ If he needs a more clever retort, he may rely on the proverb, ‘I laugh, joke, and smoke, but I don’t play.’. | ||
Black Jargon in White America 75: playing v. kidding; jesting; teasing. | ||
Do or Die (1992) 51: He kept playin’ me – you know, teasin’ me. | ||
You Got Nothing Coming 74: All I’m sayin’ to you is that when some motherfucking two-ton toad gets up in your face, starts [...] playing you, you’re gonna want some righteous woods to stand up for you. |
9. (US drugs) to adulterate.
(con. 1982–6) Cocaine Kids (1990) 37: Masterrap and me played with that package forever, we worked it to death [cut it as far as they could]. |
In compounds
a gambler.
Satirist (London) 17 Jan. 7/1: I merely instance this brief scene to show the agony of mind to which what are termed play-men are exposed. |
(S.Afr.) one who attempts to ‘pass’ as white.
Drum (Johannesburg) Aug. 6: These ‘Colourpeans,’ as they have been dubbed, can never hope to fool their own people. They are easily recognised for what they are, but most Coloureds are not malicious and allow these ‘Playwhites’ to have things their own way [DSAE]. | ||
In the Fiery Continent 78: Probably at least one member in every Off-White family is a Play-White. | ||
African Writers on African Writing 40: At the end of the book Flood’s great-great-grandson, Barry Lindsell, who is what we would now call a play-white, in South Africa, makes the decision to give his life to atone. | ||
Waiting for Leila (2001) 129: He’s a blackie like me. A playwhite. | ‘Shadow of Paradise’ in||
You Can’t Get Lost in Cape Town 4: I wouldn’t be surprised if he were Coloured, from Cape Town I suppose, a play white . . . |
In phrases
1. to agree, to cooperate.
Hooch! 58: I ain’t unreasonable. I want to play along with you. | ||
‘Don’t Give Your Right Name’ in Goulart (1967) 29: You played right along with me by moving the body. | ||
Go, Man, Go! 41: She would play along with Beano and treat Paul as a stranger. | ||
(con. 1960s) Wanderers 89: Anyways, I figure I’ll play along. | ||
London Fields 116: The weather is certainly playing along and doing its bit. | ||
Corner (1998) 305: Dre, I’m sayin’ you got to play along a little bit. |
2. to deceive gradually, to ‘take for a ride’.
Thieves Like Us (1999) 64: I played him along. | ||
Long Wait (1954) 106: She met them both in the diner and has been playing them along. | ||
Indep. 13 July 5: He had resolved to try to play along with Mr Vincent to expose his contacts. | ||
Cartoon City 148: I need to know if you’re serious about us. Or are you going to go on playing me along like this until we fizzle out? |
1. to indulge in sexual play.
15 Aug. diary in Aaron (1985) 160: About two years ago Helen got playin’ around [...] with a fellow. | ||
Dict. Amer. Sl. | ||
Don’t Get Me Wrong (1956) 34: I was wonderin’ why a dame who has got what this dame has, should be playin’ around with a guy like Dominguez. | ||
Long Wait (1954) 93: Hell, with all the free stuff coming through here who’s going to play around in those bug mills? | ||
America’s Homosexual Underground 36: My first sex experience [...] was with the boy next door. I tried the same thing with my brother, just playing around. | ||
Dead Solid Perfect 158: ‘It wasn’t Tommy’s fault. I tempted him. [...] We started playin’ around and one thing led to another’. | ||
Corner (1998) 116: He’d serve a customer and then stop to play around. |
2. to have a number of affairs, lovers, entanglements.
Bottom Dogs 263: Jack Gray, who was a jazzhound in more than one way before his several operations, still played around Solomon’s Dance Palace. | ||
Living Rough 128: He [...] started hitting the booze and playing around with the white dames. | ||
A Rope of Sand (1947) 162: Girls who play around as often as not drive one of their boyfriends to murder. | ||
Tomboy (1952) 76: Do you mean to say Happy would pass up a chance if your chick wanted to play around. | ||
Manchild in the Promised Land (1969) 189: I’d never played around with any married women before. | ||
Burn 5: I’ve never played round in Myoora [...] I never had a go at anything. | ||
The Third Deadly Sin 251: ‘It’s not the cheating I mind,’ Maddie said loudly. ‘You know I play around, too. He can screw every woman in New York for all I care’. | ||
Bonfire of the Vanities 56: Had his father ever played around? | ||
The World Don’t Owe Me Nothing 200: I liked a lot of women, I liked to play around. | ||
Gayle. | ||
Snowball in Hell 331: ‘[I]f the nation sees Mummy playing an away fixture with the England captain's wife, then its psyche will be forever altered for the better’. | ||
Empty Wigs (t/s) 466: ‘I was the only guy that didn’t play around’. |
3. to seduce.
Arrowsmith 87: I’m so darn’ glad he’s playing around with a girl that’s real folks. | ||
(con. 1920s) Studs Lonigan (1936) 624: Broads like her [...] must know they look like hell and that a guy would have to be pretty hard up before he tried to play around with them. | Judgement Day in||
Alcoholics (1993) 45: There wasn’t a surer way for a doctor to jam himself up than to play around with his nurse. | ||
Always Leave ’Em Dying 110: You and I are sure Trammel was playing around with lush little dolls. |
4. (also play) to play mental or emotional ‘games’ with someone.
Old-Time Saloon 17: No one past the age of fifty can quite fathom the significance of this modern ‘playing around.’ It seems to mean that any young person can do anything as long as violations of the statutes and fractures of the moral law are perpetrated in a spirit of fun and not in earnest. | ||
Small Time Crooks 9: Micky was known around as ‘Dumb Donovan’ and it was kind of funny to see him played around by a dame. | ||
Motown and Didi 22: The thing he had learned first in life was that you didn’t play with people and you didn’t let people play with you. | ||
Slam! 252: ‘Hey, I didn’t mean anything,’ I said. ‘I’m playing around, that’s all’. |
(US) to go shoplifiting.
(con. 1950s) Whoreson 122: I would have to play some stores in the near future. |
1. to philander, to commit adultery.
Spike Island (1981) 359: If you start playin’ away with a bird — and you’re dealing with a big-time villain — forget it. He’s got you bang to rights, and straight off he’ll bloody have yer! | ||
Observer Mag. 15 Aug. 4: Middle-aged football managers who are discovered to have been playing away from home. | ||
‘The Art of the Matter’ in Veteran 180: [M]en in middle years with a frigid marriage occasionally turned to the idea of playing an away game. | ||
Black Swan Green 70: You’re saying our mother shagged another man [...] you’re accusing her of playing away. | ||
February’s Son 12: ‘Maybe Charlie Jackson was playing away, if you’ll pardon the expression, and Scobie found out’. |
2. to do something outside one’s experience.
(con. 1970s) King Suckerman (1998) 33: I gotta be honest with you, I’m playing an away game there. |
1. of a child, to behave badly, rudely.
cited in Dict. Carib. Eng. Usage (1996). |
2. of an adult, to put on a show of defiance.
Down These Mean Streets (1970) 30: I decided that the next fucking time they threw something at me I was gonna play bad-o and not run. | ||
Notes for Gloss. of Barbadian Dial. 14: To play bad; to be aggressive or rude. [...] To bad-play is ‘not to play the game’, in other words to be deceitful, even unfaithful, as, Everybody knows she bad-playing she boy friend. |
(Aus.) to exert influence; thus play at chaneys v., to bribe.
Bulletin (Sydney) 29 Oct. 9/4: The Princess of Wales and Her Gracious are not ‘playing chaneys in the same back-yard’ now. Her Highness is very polite before folk, but she keeps out of her mother-in-law’s way as much as possible. |
to play tricks, to importune.
Garlande or Chapelet of Laurell 740: What blunderar is yonder, that playth didil diddil? He fyndith fals mesuris out of his fonde fiddill. |
(US) to deceive.
Passing Eng. of the Victorian Era. | ||
Plastic Age 200: I tell you right now that you’re turning the fraternity down; you’re playing us dirt. | ||
(con. 1920s) Studs Lonigan (1936) 712: They played Al dirt. | Judgement Day in||
‘Just a Little One’ in Parker (1943) 68: Practically anybody would play you dirt for a nickel. |
to take a mean or unfair advantage of.
N.Y. Daily Trib. 7 May 7/5: Willis attempted to ‘play down’ upon the officer, and denied ever having seen him, or having been arrested in the places spoken of by the officer. |
see separate entry.
(US gay) to be bisexual.
Times Square Hustler 42: He claims that bisexuality, or ‘playing for both teams’ does not interest him. | ||
Empty Wigs (t/s) 459: You’re not sol y sombra - ’ ‘I’m not what?’ ‘You don’t play for both teams. Her neither’. |
to be homosexual.
Right As Rain 83: To the men at the bar, they were [...] maybe even faggots, the kind of friends who ‘played for the other team’. | ||
2666 [trans.] 621: The mayor seemed to play for the other team. The assistant attorney general looked limp in the wrist . | ||
Broken 295: [T]the guys in her unit thought that she played for the other team, and not one of them ever made a play. | ‘The Last Ride’ in
(US black) to disparage, to treat in a condescending manner.
N.Y. Amsterdam Star-News 29 May 13: Not playing you 14th St means not playing you cheap. | ||
Orig. Hbk of Harlem Jive 39: Not playing you 14th Street means I’m not playing you cheap (you can get bargains down there, you know). |
see separate entry.
(Aus./UK) to deceive, to trick.
Bulletin (Sydney) 7 Feb. 7/3: [T]he clergyman proceeded, and inquired if the bridegroom would promise to love, cherish, and protect the bride. ‘In course I do. […] Do you mean to insinuate that I am a playin’ it on to her?’. | ||
De Omnibus 52: It’s ’Ankin as ole Ike mostly goes fur, but ’e’s plyed it off on me afore this. |
(US) to act meanly.
Referee 15 Aug. in (1909) 198/1: Farewell banquets have lately been played a little low down, but the ‘sendoff’ supper given to Wilson Barrett at the Criterion, on Thursday night, was an exception. | ||
Sporting Times 1 Feb. 1/1: Spoofing Continental flies is playing it a bit low down. | ||
Bulletin (Sydney) 15 Dec. Red Page/1: ‘You’ve played it pretty low on me; [...] But I’m damned if I’ll jig lepers up and down the ’Pelago; it’s an outrage on my clean schooner, sir.’. | ||
Sun. Times (Perth) 5 Nov. 1/4: The speedy departure of a Norseman nark is earnestly desired [...] he played it low down in a Hay street fuselry the other night. | ||
Sporting Times 29 Jan. 1/4: Well, it’s playin’ it low down, old gal, and as I’m rather dry / You might let me know its hidin’-place. | ‘The Dear Loaf’
(US) to deliberately act stupid.
Wiseguys 109: Or, I play Mickey the Dunce and go do what the foreman told me. | ||
Pemberton Murders 106: The DA will get the full report by mail, and will announce to the world his findings shortly thereafter. So play Mickey the Dunce until the news. | ||
Blood Feud 81: ‘Stick to your knitting and play Mickey the Dunce’. | ||
Ice Cream Man [ebook] I can suggest things to help him or her, or I can play Mickey the Dunce and let the customer flounder. |
1. (also play off one’s dust) to finish a drink, to toss off a glass.
Henry IV Pt 1 II iv: They call drinking deep, dyeing scarlet; and when you breathe in your watering, they cry, ‘hem!’ and bid you play it off. | ||
Jests to Make you Merrie in Grosart Works (1886) II 350: He requested them to play off the sacke and be gon. | ||
Sl. and Its Analogues VI 226: To play off one’s dust = to drink. |
2. to commit adultery.
Leaves from Diary of Celebrated Burglar 35/1: Our pretty hostess who, with the idea that ‘what is good for the goose is good for the gander,’ resolved to ‘play off’ upon the first opportunity. |
3. (US) to deflect, to turn aside.
Bangs 366: Doherty played the question off—Bangs had made idle threats many times. |
see under Old Harry n.
1. (also play off on) to trick, to fool.
Adventures of Gil Blas (1822) II 57: Ah! my liege, give no ear to the surmise. Your majesty is played upon. | (trans.)||
Tenting on the Plains (rev. edn 1895) 107: When I got better, didn’t he go and say I was playin’ off on him, just to get a big drink of whiskey? | ||
Gangster Girl 74: I played on the most dangerous thing in his life—a woman. | ||
Pimp 78: On the way she played on me. | ||
Dopefiend (1991) 198: The little bitch thinks she’s playing on you. |
2. to cheat on sexually, to cuckold.
Cross of Lassitude 329: She’d been through all those experiences endemic to the life, been Jonah’ed,’ played-on, Georgia’d’. | ||
(con. 1950s) Whoreson 189: Don’t no black man want to see no black women get played on. |
(US black) to delude oneself as to one’s success, sexuality, character etc, to aggrandize oneself, to humiliate oneself.
N.Y. Age 2 Nov. 10/5: A certain girl (not a bad looker either) has played herself so cheap...even a boy friend she cannot keep. | ‘Observation Post’ in||
Real Cool Killers (1969) 122: Don’t play yourself too big, punk [...] You’re just a cheap, tinhorn punk, yellow to the core. | ||
🎵 How’d you get into this spot? You played yourself. | ‘You Played Yourself’||
Straight Outta Compton 17: Flip played himself...He was talking rhetoric. Talking trash. Throwing hype. Shootin’ off his fat lip. Running off at the mouth. | ||
🎵 Put a quarter in your ass ’cos you played yourself. | ‘Hey Fuck You’||
Didn’t Nobody Give a Shit 102: ‘Ev’body in the room thought Ise playing myself that I wasn’t no alcoholic’. |
1. (orig. US black) to wear out, to lose usefulness, interest, value; usu. as played (out) adj.
Dear Bess (1983) 135: You are going to get your letter on Tuesday if everything holds together and ink don’t play out. | letter 2 Sept. in Ferrell||
Sudden Takes the Trail 60: Skittles! you couldn’t help yore hoss playin’ out on you. | ||
Jives of Dr. Hepcat (1989) 8: I don’t care if a kitty wears iron boots if he beats his gums off time, that’s my cue to play-on-out. | ||
Pimp 282: Seattle had played out. | ||
Campus Sl. Spring 6: play out – break, cease functioning. My lighter played out last night, so I have to use matches. |
2. (US campus) to use so much that it will eventually fade out.
World to Win 198: His money had played out, and he had never made a cent from his writing. |
3. to go along with something for the sake of appearance, until it loses its interest or value.
(con. early 1950s) L.A. Confidential 230: Let it play out. Push on the Nite Owl, that’s the one the public wants cleared. |
(US Und.) to practise a confidence trick.
Texas by the Tail (1994) 101: A rag mob played a rancher against the wall for seventy-five big ones. |
(US black) to treat someone unfairly, badly.
N.Y. Amsterdam Star-News 10 May 11: Not playing you 14th St. means I’m not playing you cheap (you can get bargains down there, y’know). |
(US) to avoid someone’s attentions through guile.
Clockmaker III 58: If ever you want to read a man, do simple, and he thinks he has a soft horn to deal with; and [...] while he s’poses he is a-playin’ you off, you are puttin’ the leake into him without his seein’ it. | ||
Tomboy (1952) 163: I figured I could play him off. | ||
Straight Outta Compton 70: ‘How you know?’ [...] He tried to play her off. ‘Don’t worry about how I know,’ he said. |
see sense 2 above.
(S.Afr.) for a ‘coloured’ person to ‘pass’ as white.
Crime in S. Afr. 83: Coloured ‘broads’ playing White, and ‘White’ girls playing Native. |
SE in slang uses
In compounds
(US black) an extremely close friend, one who resembles a brother; thus also play cousin, play mother, play sister.
Current Sl. I:2 5/1: Play brother, n. A very close male friend who embodies all the characteristics of a brother, but who is not related by blood. | ||
Runnin’ Down Some Lines 250: play brother/cousin/mother/sister Designation for friends who are like real relatives. | ||
Central Sl. 40/41: play brother/sister Not a real brother/sister by blood, but close enough to be a good male/female friend. |
(orig. US black) the stomach.
Really the Blues 211: Two Sweet was about six-foot-two, with a massive body, his playground sticking out in front of him about two feet. [Ibid.] 219: I gotta stretch my chippy’s playground. | ||
Reed Dict. of N.Z. Sl. 154: patio over the playground Big belly. Often used in the phrase you ‘can’t play with the toys if there’s a patio over the playground’. |
see separate entry.
In phrases
see separate entry.
(UK Und.) to lose deliberately, so as to lure one’s victim deeper into the game.
Vocab. of the Flash Lang. in McLachlan (1964) 258: play a-cross What is commonly termed playing booty, that is, purposely losing the game, or match, in order to take in the flats who have backed you, [...] while the sharps divide the spoil, in which you have a share. This sort of treachery extends to boxing, racing, and every other species of sport, on which bets are laid; sometimes a sham match is made for the purpose of inducing strangers to bet, which is decided in such a manner that the latter will inevitably lose. A-cross signifies generally any collusion or unfair dealing between several parties. | ||
Grose’s Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue [as cit. 1812]. | ||
(con. 1737–9) Rookwood (1857) 248: Jerry was a Greek by nature, and could land a flat as well as the best of them. Zoroaster was just the man to lose a fight; at, or, in the language of the Fancy, to play a cross. |
(US) to act from a position of strength.
Gem 23 Jan. 2: You’re playin’ a full hand, pardner [...] I guess you take the deck. |
to have one’s saliva checked for traces of syphilis.
Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue ms. additions n.p.: Loll Tongue. He has been playing a game at Loll Tongue; he has been salivated. | ||
, | Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue (2nd, 3rd edn) n.p.: | |
Lex. Balatronicum. | ||
Grose’s Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue. |
of a fiddler, to perform competently.
Roderick Random (1979) 41: You hear he plays a good stick, and is really diverting in company. |
to boast, to brag.
Tomboy (1952) 58: Happy was playing a record about being a big wheel in the Harps. |
(UK Und.) to serve time on the treadmill.
Sinks of London Laid Open 28: He d—d the treadmill, declared he had played at up and down before now. |
(US teen) to think about.
Baltimore Sun (MD) Sun. Mag. 4 Dec. 9/1: ‘Thank,’ she said, somewhat ticked off, but when she played it back she heard it. |
(Irish) to act cautiously.
Best of Myles (1968) 45: I would play cagey-cannon while that gentleman is in the offing because he would take the shirt off your back and put a cheaper one in its place. |
see separate entry.
(orig. US) to behave reprehensibly, to cheat.
Day Book (Chicago) 13 Oct. 7/1: [healdine] Trust Papers Play ‘Dirty’ on Parade News. | ||
On Broadway 3 Oct. [synd. col.] No one of [his friends] could bring himself to the point of playing him dirty or digging him in the back. | ||
Teen-Age Gangs 61: ‘I ain’t taking none. They get dirty, I get dirty,’ He laughed. ‘Maybe I get dirty before they do.’. | ||
(con. 1985–90) In Search of Respect 230: The women in that family like to play their husbands dirty. |
1. to squander one’s fortune, to spend money unwisely.
Eastward Ho! I i: Wipe thy bum with testons, and make ducks and drakes with shillings. | ||
Chances IV ii: Play at duck and drake with my money? | ||
Worth of a Penny in Arber Garner VI 259: I remember, in Queen Elizabeth’s time, a wealthy citizen of London left his son a mighty estate in money; who, imagining he should never be able to spend it, would usually make ‘ducks and drakes’ in the Thames, with Twelve pences, as boys are wont to do with tile sherds and oyster shells [F&H]. | ||
Scourge for Poor Robin 8: After he has fool’d away several Guineys abroad, worse than if he had made Ducks and Drakes with them. | ||
Character of a Miser in Remains (1759) II 343: And he that made Ducks and Drakes with his Money enjoyed it every way as much [F&H]. | ||
London Spy XIV 372: They hook in the old fool again to make ducks and drakes with his money. | ||
‘The Bucket of Water’ in | I (1975) 47: Never make duck and drake of your cash.||
Man of the World Act IV: My fortune [...] ’tis aw my ain acqueeseetion—I can make ducks and drakes of it. | ||
Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue ms. additions n.p.: Ducks & Drakes. To make Ducks and Drakes of one’s Money; to throw it idly away. It is as little benefit as if skim’d upon the Surface of the Water [etc.]. | ||
, | Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue (2nd, 3rd edn). | |
Works (1801) V 84: And when his money from the purse departs, / Not play at ducks and drakes on waves of whim! | ‘Liberty’s Last Squeak’||
Lex. Balatronicum. | ||
Pendennis II 194: We’ve tied up the property, so that he can’t make ducks and drakes with it. | ||
Dict. of Modern Sl. etc. (2nd edn) 134: ‘To make ducks and drakes of one’s money,’ to throw it away childishly. | ||
Son of a Vulcan III 29: Poor Johnny Armstrong hadn’t much left of the property that he and his father, and his grand-father too, had all been making ducks and drakes of. | ||
Bossier Banner (Bellevue, LA) 8 June 2/4: The United States is rich, but its servants should not play ducks and drakes with its money. | ||
Aus. Sl. Dict. 25: Ducks and Drakes, ‘to play ducks and drakes with one’s money,’ to spend it foolishly. | ||
McCook Trib. (ME) 10 July 6/1: No bank president would ever be permitted [...] to play ducks and drakes with their money. | ||
N.Y. Tribune 11 May 14/2: ‘Well now, my dear fellow [...] neither you nor I are quite in position to play ducks and drakes with sovereigns’. | ||
Dly Mirror (London) 1 Aug. 10/3: One of these days it will be impossible for a swindler to play ducks and drakes with any woman’s money. | ||
Hartlepool Northern Dly Mail 28 May 4/6: For two hears they will be able to play ducks and drakes with what remains [...] upon the direct taxpaper. | ||
Western Dly Press 19 Jan. 12/7: It is said that we shall play ducks and drakes with the finances of this country. | ||
Essex Newsman 5 Nov. 1/5: Insurance cards were only chekcd every six months; it was possible for ‘an unscrupulous lad to play ducks and drakes’ for that time. |
2. to act carelessly, to take chances.
Dundee Courier 9 Feb. 1/7: If many of our elderly admirals went to sea, they would play ducks and drakes not with the enemies’ ships, but [...] with our own. | ||
Warwick & Warwicks. Advertiser 29 July 3/6: Sweet Nelly [...] declares [...] he would play ‘ducks and drakes’ with our diplomacy. | ||
Shields Dly Gaz. 12 Jan. 3/1: Mr Law: [...] That shows what a cad you are. Don’t think you are going to play ducks and drakes with the Board. The Chairman: I’ll give you ducks and drakes, you thundering liar. | ||
Lancs. Eve. Post 3 Nov. 5/5: The Liverpool team [...] week after week play ducks and drakes with the feelings of their supporters. | ||
Portsmouth Eve. News 19 Feb. 5/3: An unqualified practitioner would not be allowed to practice, neither ought an unqualified woman be allowed to play ducks and drakes with the sick. | ||
Yorks. Eve. Post 19 Dec. 15/2: When did we see spring cabbage at Christmas? [...] How we do play ducks and drakes with the calendar in these days. | ||
Hull Dly Mail 18 Jan. 6/2: They had added to the dangers of the public in the black-out [...] He did not think they should let the Emergency Committee play ‘ducks and drakes’ with Hull’s highways. | ||
Hartlepool Northern Dly Mail 21 Apr. 7/3: Bristol firemen object to acting as midives [...] ‘We cannot afford to play ducks and drakes with human lives’. |
(N.Z. prison) to deal drugs.
Boobslang [U. Canterbury D.Phil. thesis] 142/2: play God v. to deal drugs. |
see separate entry.
to act in an ad hoc spontaneous manner.
Strange are the Ways of Love 18: He saw something in her eyes which he couldn't quite make out [...] He was forced to play everything by ear, and while he didn't like doing things that way, he couldn't think of any other. | ||
Wantons Die Hard 161: ‘I’m playing this by ear,’ he grunted once when the American queried the devious route he was following [OED]. | ||
(con. 1940s) Wax Boom 198: We figure and figure, and then we play it by ear. | ||
Cannibals 177: I have the big one at six-thirty, and I’m playing it by ear. [Ibid.] 335: Pick me up here at eight p.m. and we’ll play it by skyhook. | ||
Sir, You Bastard 73: Just play it by ear [...] you’ll be all right. | ||
Family Arsenal 154: I’ll play it by ear. | ||
Q&A 94: ‘We stash in cool, sit Reilly facin’ their table. Then we go by ear’. | ||
Only Fools and Horses [TV script] Look, let’s just play it by ear, shall we. | ‘Christmas Crackers’||
Guardian G2 31 Jan. 22: ‘You must be wrong in the head’, claimed Yvonne, but agreed to ‘play it by ear’. |
1. to conserve one’s funds.
Checkers 153: I’ve got to play ’em close to my vest now. A dime’s bigger than a mountain when you have n’t [got one]. |
2. to act in a reserved, secretive manner.
A Rope of Sand (1947) 107: I can play ’em as close to my vest as Mrs. Hjerleid. | ||
Monkey On My Back (1954) 113: All right. Play it close to the chest. | ||
Diamonds Are Forever (1958) 169: Playing it pretty close to the chest. | ||
Breaks 172: I still needed to play close to the vest with my emotions. | ||
Grand Central Winter (1999) 134: I wasn’t expecting any raves from her. She tended to play it close to the chest with me. |
(US campus) to dismiss something, to not care.
Campus Sl. Spring 6: play it off – take it easy, don’t be embarrassed. | ||
Lockdown 16: Cobo tried to play it off but we all knew about the Replacement Center. [...] Dudes got shanked up there all the time. |
(Aus.) to irritate.
Poor Man’s Orange 216: The cold air playing jip with the aching ones [teeth]. |
to hide, to keep out of the way.
, , | Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue. | |
Lex. Balatronicum. | ||
Grose’s Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue. | ||
Vocabulum. |
(orig. US) a phr. usually used to children adapted to adult speech: to cooperate with and behave courteously towards others.
Crime Fighter 104: We couldn’t just present this evidence to the detectives and Narcotics and ask them to play nice together; we forced the issue. | ||
Gone Girl 390: ‘Let’s not push it for now, okay, Nick?’ he said. ‘For now, play nice’. | ||
Joey Piss Pot 178: ‘It’s obvious he was playing nice with you guys’. |
(Aus.) to be drunk.
Materials for a Dict. of Aus. Sl. [unpub. ms.]. |
1. to circumvent obstacles, mental as well as physical.
Black Players 39: To play past something in The Game is to get beyond or around an obstacle. Thus, if someone attempts phony excuses one should ‘play past that shit’ and find out the real reasons behind their actions. If there is a serious psychological obstacle (guilt, recriminations), you can try to brush off the matter by claiming that ‘I can play past that bullshit because my thoughts are bigger than that.’. | ||
On the Stroll 125: Prince had been thinking [...] Long enough to play right past the warden and his jive. |
2. to lose an opportunity.
Black Talk. |
(US) to act over-cautiously.
Requiem for a Dream (1987) 109: He drove cautiously but not overcautiously. He didn’t believe in playing scared pool. |
(UK Und.) to steal money which one is supposedly passing on to a confederate.
Gentlemen of the Broad Arrows 166: The thirty-five quid proved too big a temptation; he has played stickers with it. |
(US) to ignore.
I Love You Honey, But the Season’s Over 139: Dope! I was trying to tell you to play the iggie [...] To play the iggie means to play dumb – clam up. | ||
Mud Show 187: They play the iggie to you and get by [HDAS]. |
(drugs) to smoke heroin with a rolled-up matchbook cover substituted for the usual roll of tinfoil, which is used to suck up the heated, smoking heroin.
‘Sl. Names’ Drugs-info.co.uk 🌐 Play The Mouth Organ To use a matchbox cover to chase the dragon. |
to be whipped at the cart’s tail.
, , | Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue n.p.: Strong man. To play the part of the strong man, i.e. to push the cart and horses too; to be whipt at the cart’s tail. | |
Lex. Balatronicum [as cit. 1785]. | ||
Grose’s Classical Dict. of the Vulgar Tongue. |
see separate entry.
(UK Und.) to mark cards with pinpricks.
Detection of Vyle and Detestable Use of Dice Play 33: Some play upon the prick; some pinch the cards privily with their nails; some turn up the corners; some mark them with fine spots of ink. |
of a psychiatric patient who believes himself Christ, deluded, mentally unstable.
Empty Wigs (t/s) 536: Mitka is - you know football yeh? Ok he’s playing with a nine-man team. And he ain’t never going to get back those two players who splash the bath early, he ain’t never going to get them back. |